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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I help so that our first time is loooong lasting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend says that after a guy gets so used to masturbating..the first time after that, he cums faster. He says it gets a bit sensitive down there. Is this true? How can I help so that our first time is loooong lasting? ... (47 words)

Tell him how I feel or keep it to myself? We're boys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i feel really messed up right now 'cause i'm in love with this other guy. he's the sweetest yet most annoying jerk i've ever met. he's usually loud, boastful and just plain stupid but i can't get him out of my mind. the thing is that wit me he's different, even if just a ... (416 words)

Why doesn't my husband tell his ex to finalise the divorce papers...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Alright my husband is doing time. A lot of time. He has 5 more years to go. I did 13 years with him already and married him in there. (don't bash me for this.) He started using drugs in 1991 when he met this other lady who was an addict. She was a very pretty woman and he told ... (761 words)

I'm not sure what is wrong with me. Should I talk to him about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly don't know where to begin this and I'm not even sure what is wrong with me. So help me out to figure out if I like this guy, but don't trust?, I simply lost interests in him?, or I'm getting clingy? I am going out with this guy for exactly three months now. He b... (506 words)

He says his hours have changed but I think he is cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been married to my husband now for 6 years and we have 4 wonderful children together. i love him very much and he hasnt done anything to imply that he doesnt love me anymore. he has worked at the same place for 5 years but recently hes said that his "hours have changed". ... (175 words)

Partner divorced 2 years ex wife still on his computer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner 2 years and have recently given birth to a son. My partner got Divorced 2 years ago but fails to delete all of his ex wife's photos holidays, wedding etc from his PC and company Home Server. I finally moved in x-mas after renovating his h... (207 words)

Pretending to be the ex during sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What do you think about a husband asking his wife to play like he is her ex, while they are having sex?... (22 words)

Does he really love me? He ignores me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well ive got a problem i dont know if my boyfriend loves me or not. He says it but you know thats just words until you put a meaning. He always ignores me in first block at my school and talks to Brittney next to him and i am beside him too so there is no reason to ignore me. ... (95 words)

Guys: What kind of colors/clothes do you like girls to wear?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - guys, what kind of clothes do you like girls to wear? do you like dresses or the casual, sweatshirt look? do any specific colors catch your eye?... (27 words)

Am I special? Or did I just take the bait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a little concerned about the guy I'm dating, I mean he told me how lonely he was in his marriage (divorced now)and how they didn't have sex for the last 2-3 years of their marriage so in turn, he cheated on his wife. The problem is, it sounds like he cheated on her well ... (178 words)

Boyfriend chatting with ex on internet also with other girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have had a lot of trust problems in the past just because im extremely insecure about how hes still friends with his ex. his online site was up and i looked at it and he was privately messaging her and as i went to look he quickly turned off the computer. i ... (130 words)

Mom says I have to break up with boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help real bad!!!! im 13 and my bf is 17 my mom just recently found out and now she is telling me that i have to break up with him. i know im too young for him but im in love with my boyfriend he is just so perfect and he is not the kind of guy who is pressuring me to do ... (167 words)

Found my ex but he's married w/kids and still loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is the deal, 8 years ago i got engaged before i left my country a year after that i found out my fiance was seeing someone else, when i confronted him about it, even after that i tried to work it out with him but the relationship got strained and we went our seperate... (351 words)

Which one should I chose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy for some time, we will just call him (CJ). Well i really like him and from my understanding he really likes me too. But he never seems to have time for me. In the 3 or 4 months that we have been talking i have only seen him maybe 3 times and it ... (187 words)

I really want to go to prom, but can't go with my b/f and he doesn't want me to go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My end of year prom is coming up school and as part of the school rules we are not allowed to bring anyone who is not a student from the school to the prom. Also everyone has been paired up with someone in the class who is basically our prom date. I really want to go but my ... (112 words)

Why did he treat me so badly? And why do I still care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I cant seem to get over how my ex treated me.here are some of the things he would say! Im fat ive got a fat bum. I dress stale. He could dress me better.he felt sorry 4 me thats why he was with me. I had a sad life. If i was bloke he would smash my face in. My mum looked like a ... (340 words)

I found out on the internet that the woman I love is listed as a call girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have just started talking to the woman I love again after a year and a half, apart we were lovers over 5 years ago and I always wanted her back but we fell out because of this and I took off on a new career path. Any way this new career changed my life and me both physical... (205 words)

LDR is difficult for me and I have many doubts/questions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya On holiday last summer, I met this really lovely guy. Even though I haven't done much with guys before, I ended up going topless for him, which was completely out of character. Only thing is, he lives at the other end of the country to me. We talk on the phone for hours ab... (255 words)

I wonder if in his blog he's talking about me? How can I bring it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend I had previously dated and I have started hanging out again. We broke it off because he wasn't ready and I had just gotten out of a relationship. Now, the day after I saw him he posted a blog talking about if you like a close friend, but are afraid to tell them ... (106 words)

How do I get back b/f after being apart 4 a year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i get my ex bf back we hav been apart 4 a year now?should i go and tell him i stil luv him? I need help please! Thank you... (32 words)

Why am I not getting a g/f?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Wot s wrong wid me? Um 19, shy type, everyone says i m handsome, i do body building, i am trendy, um not that ugly. Then why not i am getting a gf? Naturally nothing came in me that how to pick a girl or ask her out. Um only single in my frenz group. I ve lots of frenz who are ... (80 words)

Do I have reason to be worried, or do guys say things like this all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months now. we love each other and i believe as a couple we are very strong. however i came across a comment on a networking site that he'd made 5months ago to a girl he was seeing about 10 months back (nothing serious) the co... (214 words)

Any tips about 'domination' in the bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I was just wondering about 'domination' in the bedroom. Me and my bf have a good sex life, but we're a relatively new couple, and haven't tried anything extreme yet. Seeing as it's valentines day soon, I wanted to experiment some sort of dom/sub scenario (basica... (125 words)

Ex has shown up in my life again and its hard to deal with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend of almost 3 years, but just recently my first love(a guy that I liked for almost 6 years) came back into my life. He got a job at my work, so we see each other a lot. We were friends for a long time, I really liked him, and we finally got together for a while ... (219 words)

We moved in with another couple and I don't trust the other woman, help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Will he cheat? I just moved in with another couple only a week ago and I already feel uncomfortable. We are all in our late thirties to forties except one and she is 27, that's not an issue. The issue is I think she is flirting with my boyfriend I am not sure and I am going cr... (174 words)

I'm turned on by watching fat, unattractive men in porn videos, is this strange?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Any other girl with the same "fetish"? Thanks for answers. Hay, This question might sound a bit weird. I'm 19 and I recently found out that i have some kind of fetish about watching porn movies with older man having sex with younger girls(18-25). But they're not attractive, ... (123 words)

I was hurt when I found out she liked someone else, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I still dont think im over this girl. Shes funny and a great mate and i had my first real experience of love with her. She said no but i had butterflies in my stomach for weeks before i asked her and i couldnt stop thinking about her. She wouldnt hurt a fly Tbh. she ... (130 words)

Is it wise to get back in touch with an ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just wanted people's opinions on something. My ex and I have been split up for over a year now and I would dearly love to talk to him. Is it advisable to send him a text? If so, what do I say? Thanks... (44 words)

I have a boyfriend but fancy my teacher, I'm confused, can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and in my second year of A levels and finish in June then i'm off to University. I know this is going to sound like a teenage crush but i think i fancy my head of sixth form. He is 30 and we get along well. As part of one of my Alevel subject my class had to go to the... (143 words)

Will this Leo-Virgo woman be compatible with a Capricorn male?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I'm a 37 year old blue Capricorn tooth brush. She's a 31 year old Leo-Virgo-cusp tooth brush. I am very attracted to her. Do you girlies out there think we are likely to hit it off based on star-sign compatibility alone? Thanking you in advance!... (46 words)

How do I deal with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my ex very much and i havent give up on him. i didnt want to break up with him but i had to. it has just beenn a month and he's telling me he realllyyy likes this girl. and he says he's very happy with her and she understands him more. he says she understands him more cz ... (131 words)

Does my b/f still like his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been bestfriends with this boy then we went out for one day b/c he kissed his ex . I forgave him but we went bak to being friends . we went out again in November but his ex was making it miserable for me and they kissed again . Now we go out again . we are soo in love ... (181 words)

Why are woman naturally jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Why are we women naturally jealous? Men are naturally visual, so they naturally have a "wandering eye". Why do we have to be jealous then? I'm not saying "all women" or "all men", but most. I know I get jealous as much as I rationally know this fact about men, and so do a... (135 words)

He accused me of cheating and then broke up??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was seeing this guy for 3months and we got into an argument and he accused me of cheating when i haven't.. i guess he wanted to break up.. and since then ive not heard from him so i guess this is his way of breaking up with me..any advice please.. still don't know where i ... (100 words)

Why does he kiss for so long?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I enjoy kissing my boyfriend . The only problem is , when we kiss , he likes to kiss foreverrr . I always push him away and start over and again , he continues to kiss for soooo long . I want to give him pecks sometimes but he continues to kiss and kiss and kiss! why does he ... (64 words)

I want to ejaculate on her face, how to convince her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i have done a lot sexually. we have both performed oral on each other, she likes it when pull out and cum on her, and she has even let me cum in her mouth and on her face once. i only recently told her that i would like cum on her face more because it turns me ... (99 words)

Why has he become distant? Was he telling the truth while he was drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (i'm 16) basically i went out with this guy and broke up with him just under a month ago. It was a very difficult relationship and was extremely rocky towards the end (didnt end exactly well). Anyway his very close friend (who i got with just before going out with my ex) who i ... (283 words)

B/f depressed and I'm not sure how to help him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend gets really depressed alot and until now i've been able to cope with talking him through it even though alot of what he says to me really hurts. When hes depressed he will say things like theres not point us being together or i don't love you basically things... (166 words)

The problem is I can't make him climax!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been going out 4 awhile now, I've had one sexual partner before him, he was still a virgin when we started going (but he had done oral) anyway... I know how to pleasure him, in the fact that I know what he likes. The problem is I can't make him climax, he has ... (98 words)

You think he fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really fancy this boy at sch everyone said that we should go out but every time some one tries to ask him he denies it in 1 lesson last week he asked me to sit next to him so i did he is cute but everyone else picks on him at school i realy fancy him i had a dream th... (121 words)

I lied and now she can't accept me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i lied to my galfrnd a lot. like i created a fake id with my uncle's name.. and chatted with her . i started this to actually settle some disputes between us so that we will not fight and also to advice her on some bad people in the school who are trying to eperate us. but ... (237 words)

I'm pregnant and face constant arguments with my boyfriend, help me get my head clear...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all I am writing in to just ask for help because everyone I speak to says I need to sort it myself but I seriously don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 12 months, I am 5 months pregnant and he treats me like I'm nothing. When we first go... (368 words)

Should my crush be bothered that I have a best friend who is also male?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

- Me and a boy at school have liked eachother for months. But I have a best friend whos also male and who I hang about with in school. I have told the boy I like I dont fancy this other boy and hes my best friend. He says hes not botherd if I hang about with him if hes my mate. ... (94 words)

My hubby cheated on me 20 years ago, how do I cope with the revelation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband received a christmas card from a woman he used to work with many years ago.She said she wanted to meet up with him for old times sake.When I questioned this, he admiitted that he had a fling with her 2 years into our marriage when I was expecting our 2nd child which ... (180 words)

Why doesn't my husband understand that I need a normal family life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband makes me stay with his parents and family and he works at my home town i used to stay with him but now for a year i am here with my child.he visits us every weekend.i wonder why he doent understand i need a normal family life.he doesnt wnat me to go to work ,so i do ... (67 words)

My daughter got pregnant with a man who is disrespectful and unkind and moved away with him. How can I feel better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age - Hi. I was just wondering how long it will take for my 19 year old daughter to wake up and see reality? She got pregnant with a guy who is 20, and he is very disrespectful, unkind, selfish and arrogant. He disrespected me right from the very start! He is sue-happy (wants to ... (646 words)

Should I stay with him because I won't find anyone who will treat me better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a guy who I work with for nearly a year now. He tells me he loves me and would do anything for me - probably the sweetest guy I have ever met. BUT - I don't find him attractive enough. I don't really fancy him like I have fancied my other ... (146 words)

We kissed but he didn't ask for my number, any idea why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've known this guy for a few months, I liked him when we first met though nothing happened, next time we met out in a pub we were flirting with each other but I was with another guy that night so nothing happened, then we met again and this time we kissed. I do like him and ... (106 words)

Sex with her is rather messy..is there a way to approach this with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently started seeing this great girl, the relationship is going well and the sex is great. However, there is one thing that I feel a little awkward talking to her about. She is fortunate in that she can orgasm very easily, literally just a few minutes of oral or a bit... (241 words)

All these ups and downs are driving me crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm been dating my girlfriend for more than 7 years, and yes we have had our ups and donws, and 1 year ago we started living together but it didn't last long, it only last 3 months and then she move out, but we started dating after a while, and every time i ask her; when she ... (95 words)

What is wrong with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my BF is says am cheating on him when am not. when i go out with my girlfriends he aks me if i got chatted by other guys or did i got drunk.when am not that kind of a girl that would do that. i really like him and am falling for him but am sacred cos his behaviour is pushing me ... (107 words)

Is he playing with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy at school and he keeps on staring at me all the time. Sometimes with a small smile on his face and other times just a blank look. He also sometimes shows-off and flirts with other girls in front of me (he does it purposely). And there are days where he'll... (179 words)

He's got a baby on the way but says he loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,my b/f and i just started dating. on our first date he took me out and he got me drunk we had sex that night. I just find out the morning later that day that he got a anather gal pregnant by him. he told me he loves me en cant let go of me in front of the pregnant lady. ... (95 words)

I like her but I'm terrified of going on a date with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always identified myself as bisexual. Even though I have fancied women and maybe shared the odd kiss, I have never been seriously involved with another woman, and have always dated men. I'm currently single. I've recently met a girl, who is also bisexual, who I really ... (277 words)

Anxiety about my period every month

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I want to know why i always feel like i'm the only girl in the whole world that can't deal with her period. Everytime I get it i constantly stay home. I'm always afraid to go to school with it, because i'm afraid i'm gonna have an accident and everyone's gonna know. I know ... (355 words)

Pain while urinating--what could this be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am 18 i had sex with my new boyfriend 11 days ago and i stil hav pains even while urinating wat could this be i dnt want my mum 2 kno en i havnt told my boyfriend abt it.plz help ... (42 words)

Dating 3 weeks, she's pregnant by her ex! What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a girl for approx 3 weeks, we found out last night that she is pregnant to her ex bf. It's been a whirlwind romance and i have very strong feeling for the girl. She has asked for time and space to decide how she is going to cope etc. I believe she will keep ... (73 words)

He says he's not ready but I want to take our relationship to the next level

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 9 years (since I was 19) and we moved in together 4 years ago. After being together for such a long time I really want to take our relationship to the next stage by getting married and having children. For the past few years he's insisted th... (162 words)

HELP! What is he playing at?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy that I've been chatting to flirting 2yrs now.. we flirt alot i really like him and i think he likes me too.. but he has a gf and he's been with her for over 1 year now... every time we talk we always ask me who do i like (fancy)..he annoys me with the same... (231 words)

How do I prepare myself for the big occasion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age - I haven't been in a relationship for a very long time, now I have met a guy through dating agency. We have met twice and now he says he is in love with me. Can this be true? He has also booked a weekend away. How do I prepare myself for the big occasion? What if he just said ... (84 words)

Break up? Or make up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So my X girl, if u get a chance u can read my other questions to get our history. But basically since our break up I've slept with her once n a blue, I probably shouldn't have but I luv her.... Basically she still denies cheating on me, she has lost atleast 30lbs n tells me ... (231 words)

I want her to feel about me the way she used to

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5 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi to answer your question my cousin and me went out for approximately three months . the reason we have arguments is because we are in a distant relationship and she doesnt want me any more. We aregue because I try to get back with her and I end up hurting her again and again ... (172 words)

I think the boy I like is disguising himself as a girl on msn to get to know me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i liked this boy for ages and lately this person added me claiming to be a girl howevere i don't belive so, but the person keeps askin questions etc... and already has the answers to them, were i live, etc.. who i am etc...... but they claim they got the addy of their bro, ... (134 words)

My b/f went running back to his ex and I'm hurting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 2yearsi paid for his car and help him financially and his exgirlfriend call and said she want him back n he went back to her. she doesnt even know about me. but i still love him n cant get over him what should i do... (53 words)

Someone is trying to blackmail me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have some problems with someone blackmailing me online. He has threatened to post some pictures ( compromising ones) online if i do not do what he wants me to. I do not know what to do. I only know him online. I have no idea of his physical address. Please hel... (65 words)

I have ill mother and have been summoned for jury duty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - have just got a letter telling me that I will be included for jury sevice from september this year until september 2010. I rang them to ask what I should do as my mum is blind and needs to have her medicine administered by me. We have home care to help me get her up and back ... (155 words)

I don't love her and wish to break things off but I don't want to hurt her either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i wana get rid of this girl now, she has become crazy about me ..literally !! i got hooked up to her partially out of the need to keep a girl friend. my intentions were never wrong i only got carried away to her love as no one has ever loved me so much. but its going over ... (381 words)

My g/f & I are now tiptoeing around each other so we don't argue!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I are having problems. It just seems like all the things we don’t like about each other have just arisen into the spotlight in the last 2 weeks. We don’t argue like cats and dogs but are instead ridden with insecurities and distrust which crop up every now and ... (176 words)

I'm young, but will I ever find love again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

5 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Will I ever fall in love or find love again? My ex and I were best friends for about four years, since the beginning of high school. We confided completely in one another and absolutely trusted each other with everything. We had an amazing friendship, but we also had chemist... (452 words)

My boss & I slept together but now hes interested in another

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been at my job for a while and just over a month ago a new manager started. From the first time we meet i was attracted to him, there was a bit of subtle flirting for a week then we went out one night after work ended up getting drunk and sleeping together. we did this a ... (146 words)

Do I have any rights?

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5 February 2009 (M)

age - Can you remarry after divorce? Is your contract with God or the government? My wife had two affairs and it blew my mind literally. I had a mental breakdown and developed Bi polar. Anyway i'm back and have finally recovered after 7 years and realise it is my duty to fulfill my... (94 words)

Does it mean something? Or should I ignore?

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5 February 2009 (F)

My spouse is abusive, I met a another man but he respects my marriage, I'm upset...

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5 February 2009 (F)

age - been living with guy who verbally abuses me for 10 years, got three lovely young children with him so difficult to leave. recently got friendly with a guy but got too close and he is completely blanking me sayin ghe is catholic and feels so guilty and i have children and they... (93 words)

Extremely frustrated by the lack of sex in my 6 year relationship, help!

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5 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am a 24 year old male and my partner is a 21 year old female. Recently ive been extremely frustrated by the lack of sex in my 6 year relationship. I have a very healthy desire for sex, so much so I would have it everyday if I could. However im lucky to... (133 words)

How do I get my cold sex buddy to open up?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey , so iv been seeing this guy. He's been my friend since 4 years but we started makingout a year back. The problem is that hes just so cold all the time. I dont want him to commit or be my bf , but at least a real friend.. He never tells me anything nice about me or talks ... (175 words)

Strange circumstances and I'm pregnant, should I tell the boyfriend?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last week i and my boy friend went to a party where i was given a soft drink and i fell unconsious and the next morning when i woke up i found my self on my boy friends bed. on that day we broke up and are'nt speaking to each other but since two three days i was not well... (90 words)

Has anyone ever heard of SPD during the 6th month of pregnancy?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I guess this is a sex question since I'm scared to have sex! I am in my 24th week of pregnancy with my first child. I woke up the morning of the 4th and could barely walk! It felt as if someone took a sledge hammer to my pelvis! I stayed in bed most of the day since it... (189 words)

My girlfriend wants me to wear my military uniform for her!

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5 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey Connor again lol. ive been talken to my gf more about valentines day and somits come up. she wants me to were my ACF uniform (Military Kit. she really likes puttin on outfits and all. that dont bother me one bit :D. but , and this sounds silly, but im kinda uneasy about ... (95 words)

Are relationships so brittle to break in a second?

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5 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, My girlfrnd for 4 years suddenly says her feelings for me are over..she told me she will not be able to reciprocate the love i give to her....she dont love me anymore... She told me not to call her as it hurts..... She even didn't wish me on my bday.... Are r... (74 words)

I don't know my husband after 16 years, he says he has been unhappy?! Help, I'm torn.

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5 February 2009 (F)

age - I have been with my husband for over 18 years, married almost 16. My husband is passive aggressive and is 51 years old and I am 47. We have always gotten along well, though he always had the tendency to internalize things, and we overall communicated ok, but of course i... (1619 words)

My boyfriend's best friend raped me and he doesn't believe me...

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not really sure what to do or say and if I should. Basically just before the new year my boyfriend, his cousin, and I went over to his best friends house for some fun time of dancing and drinking (just the four of us). After it got to being around 330 or 5 and after a lot ... (305 words)

I want pay back... but is it worth it?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was talking to a guy I met online. We talked forever. And I really enjoyed the conversation. We made plans to finally meet, and he stands me up. I was devastated. I thought he liked me. 2 weeks later, I'm over it. Somewhat. But I find out, I personally know this guy. We live... (105 words)

Any place I can go to be put on the pill without my mom knowing?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to be put on the pill but i dont know how to tell me mom so i was wondering if there was any place i can go that she dont need to be there or anything... (38 words)

Why do guys don't want a relationship with me after sex?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Never had a boyfriend and I'm 20 I feel so alone and depressed because I'm at the end of my rope. I've been kissed I've had sex with guys they never seem to want more than that from me. I watch everyone I know go through relationships: love, loss and I have nothing. The only ... (86 words)

Should I have stayed in a confusing relationship or did I do the right thing?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age - I was in a relationship for 2 and half years with a man I love deeply he was always running away for weeks at a time and then return to say he wanted me he even called me two days before Christmas 2 years and said he is going to be seeing someone else and about 3 weeks later ... (392 words)

Is 4 months too soon? How much does it hurt first time?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello! :D ok ive now been with my boyfriend for 4 months and love him so much!I think i want to have sex with him but im a virgin and hes not.Hes putting no presure on me to have it and we will be safe but im worried. How much does it hurt first time and is there anyway t... (117 words)

I'm shy and uncomfortable about sex

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid... Im gonna be straight forward... Im a VERY SHY woman in bed. Ive been with my husband for 7 years now (6 of them we were not married!) and I feel like Im just too shy for him... I have fantasies of being more wild but Im not the type of woman to take control,... (125 words)

Pregnant sister to have 2nd abortion in 2 years!

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My sisters pregnant and going to have her second abortion in two years, im furious with her and dont want to have anything to do with her, its only because her boyfriend dont like kids. Its their fault and i think they should grow up and start acting like adults, i told her ... (138 words)

Pregnant and getting bite like marks on me?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - As you might know im 8 weeks prego..very excited..but i have a little problem..i know during pregnancy ur body changes and all that..but i found this body change a lil weird ..i keep getting all these some bite-like bumps on my arms legs butt and stomach and they itch really ... (86 words)

Is he just trying to get into my pants?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well,There's this guy. I do believe we have chemistry. The problem is,he's my best friends brother. And he has a girlfriend. Well,it pretty much started when I was in like 6th grade. I talked to him alot,on myspace,the phone,and when I would go over to my friend's house. T... (254 words)

My 17 year old son hates me!

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5 February 2009 (?) - My 17 year old son hates me! All because me and his Dad decided to get him away from a bad crowd of kids, he was doing drugs with, in our home city, here. His Dad and I are divorced but always remained friendly and both are pro-active parents. So this joint decision had to be ... (311 words)

She thinks I'm cheating on her because I don't want sex

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5 February 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My wife and me haven't had sex in 2 weeks mainly because I have a very stressful job and my boss makes everyone work late without being paid extra. I have actually started getting high blood pressure and horrible headaches from my stress. Anyway when I get home my wife called ... (113 words)

I didn't get a say in this breakup!

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5 February 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend recently ended it with me, to be exact on new years day. the problem started from day one really, we werent allowed to be together as she was my support worker and i was her client, code of ethics, it just wasnt allowed but you cant help who you fall for, right? ... (299 words)

No sex until marriage? Does anyone believe in that?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - do any of you guys believe in NO SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE?? sorry i kinda messed up in that other question...I meant to say if u guys believe in NO SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE....DO U THINK IT'S A LOAD OF BULL OR WHAT??... (42 words)

I slept with my boss and now he's flirting with other women right in front of me!

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5 February 2009 (F)

Does anyone believe in sex before marriage?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anybody believe in sex before marriage? I would like to hear your opinions about it.. what do you guys about it?? Do you think it's possible or is it a bunch of bull??... (35 words)

Your opinion on a young girl's sexual identification crisis?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello strangers, I'm only 14 going on 15 but I'm having... 'anxieties' over what my sex life will be. I'm hetero sexual girl, and I beleive that love is love, no matter race, gender, age, or beleif, though I'm terrified of my self. Not just me actual, but every one of my ... (499 words)

He pulled out, could I still be pregnant?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okayy. I had sex with this guy...he didnt cum inside me he pulled out...but now im kinda scared that i could be pregnaunt...because i thought my period was gunna start at anytime....and it still hasnt...do you guys think im pregnaunt??... (40 words)

My brother is going down on his girlfriend and he is only 13, what should I do?!?

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5 February 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello If you don't want to read what fully happens, skip to the paragraph above the last sentence. I have a brother. He is 13, and has a girlfriend. My aunt visited my mom so they decided to go shopping. I was told to watch my brother till she gets back. I told him I... (273 words)

My ex says his new girl understand him more--it hurts so much that he says that!

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was in a relationship with this boy who doesnt live near me, for around half a year. i had a very busy schedule last semester and i didnt get to spend time with him. i really love him a lot. we talked about everything and we were serious about us. at the end of the year, i ... (427 words)

Should I begin the 'get-over-him' stage or should I just wait?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for over 7 years. We've never broken up, but now he wants a 'break.' He said he loves me and that he still feels the sparks when we kiss... so what's the deal? What should I do? I've been researching a lot of thi... (92 words)

6 year boyfriend, an angry drunk. Should I leave or talk it out like adults?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years we have 2 kids together and i love him so much. he gets me what i want and what my kids need. So part of the problem is he started to drink everyday since he lost his job, he turns to a whole different person when he's drunk ... (231 words)

He left and now he wants me back.. should I trust him?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have been together off and on for four years. We split in September because he believed there were some things he needed to do for himself. The only reason in the past for splitting was because he always was confused or had issues to deal with within himself. Now, ... (147 words)

Are guys turned off by hair down THERE?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so im... younger and i have hair on my vagina and my bf tried to finger me which i dont care and am all for but then i had to run out on him. Are guys turned off by hair there? should i shave that? if i do need to shave how do i do that? ... (59 words)

Is his behavior foretelling that he's just after the chase??

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy online, he contacted ME, we emailed back and forth a few times he gave me his phone number and msn address pretty fast, i thanked him but did not use them right away. As soon as i added him to my msn he stopped emailing me online, he asked that i phone him, i ... (126 words)

Is there a link between my father problems and my relationships with boys of my age?

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5 February 2009 (F)

- Hey, well I have a problem and it's making me feel down. It just seems like nothing is going right at the moment. I'll cut to the chase, concerning my family, my dad is an alcoholic and has abused alcohol for as long as I can remember, and despite small efforts, he's never ... (536 words)

My boyfriend turns off the radio in the car while I'm driving!

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi it's a petty relationship question, but I just want to know if I'm off base here. Scenario: I'm driving in my car with my boyfriend(he is the passenger) and I happen to be listening to my favorite radio station. All of a sudden he leans over and turns off my car radio. ... (171 words)

I have 2 serious partners, I want to hurt neither but know I've got to choose!

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is long but I am begging someone to try and read it. I need somebody's opinion. I am a 23 year old high school teacher. Work is ok,and I am living a very comfortable live except for one thing. I have two partners - I mean two serious partners! None of them have any... (394 words)

Is there such a thing as "orgasmic childbirth"?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - alright.. umm, i am not sure if this link will work on here, but is this really possible?? (mod: google orgasmic childbirth) ^link... if the link doesnt work, or you dont want to view it, it just is a doctumenary thing, (nothing is showed) of a women giving b... (111 words)

How can I get big boobs naturally?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I get big boobs without surgery or lotions or pills?... (12 words)

How can I show "more personality" in class?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My teacher told me today that he wishes i would show more personality when i'm with him and in his class (since he always sees me joking with friends in the hallway). my personality's really crazy-- like needs-to-go-to-an-asylum crazy lol... but if he wants to see it, he wa... (60 words)

How can I talk to her without coming across that I'm hitting on her?

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5 February 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a girl who I work with who I can't tell if she is interested in me. We were introduced briefly at a work function but just talked a little because it was on the way out the door. Previously to that she would smile at me when we passed each other at work. We always will ... (294 words)

I love him but I'm confused

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - lately my boyfriend and i have been having a few problems i think it may be because of my cowardliness of commitment and i'm not one to like being tied down for too long, he and i have been "taking it easy" or "on a break" for the past couple of days. Do you think we are doing ... (98 words)

I just want to meet someone, settle, and have a family

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! Im 36 and on my own again. I just want to meet someone special and settle down and have a family. I try to go out as often as possible, have joined clubs and tried the internet but still no-one I feel I like. I worry that I will never have this and get so down. I... (136 words)

Was he rejected?

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5 February 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If things get hot n heavy!! He initiates it and I follow..then I end up putting the brakes! Say 'no' to sex. Will my partner end up so frustrated that it will drift him further apart. I'm asking this because it went as far as him pulling his pants down and me rubbing it. H... (92 words)