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writes:so this is kinda long sorry. sometimes i write letters to my boyfriend that i just keep as a way to get my feelings out. even though sometimes i don't intend for them to really be read by him. well i wrote a letter and put my son to bed and fell asleep. the letter was left on top of my purse by mistake and he read it. in the letter i talked about how i love him and fall for him more everyday. we have never said i love you. he asked me about it and i told him everything and when i asked how he felt he said he doesn't know. i don't know what's worse knowing fee.s down that he doesn't love me (yet) or the fact that he doesn't know how he feels. he said he cares and right now this is what feels good to him but he doesn't know if he loves me. i don't know what to feel right now knowing that he knows that he has my heart but is not sure i have his. any advice on the situation. i truly love this man and i know we haven't been together long (a few months) but we are already living together so i always kinda thought he felt more. i don't knowing to handle that he doesn't love me. what should i do? what can i do to go from care to love?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (7 January 2011):
 I think deep down you intended for him to find this letter because you are really wanting an answer from him, does he love you. I've never understood how people can have intimate relations and not feel love, but hey! that's just me. If someone didnt love me they would not be worthy of my body. But some people also are scared to say 'I love you'. They feel like 'oh my god i'm trapped now'. Those three little words can open up such a big can of worms and cause so much trouble can't they? Now ask your self, is he kind to you, is he good to you. Is he a good friend, does he treat you and your son good. if the answer is yes to all these, then i'd say that he probably does love you, but the words get in the way.
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