A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay so I am 14 years old and I'm super confused. So my ex has been giving me signs that he likes me alot. After I had a break up recently me and my ex started chatting again alot like day and night text contact. We see eachother at school and he and his friends sit by our table close to me and my gals. He will stare at me constantly and whenever I come into the lunchroom. During school we ignore eachother sometimes and pretend nothing is happening. But when we are texting we will be so open about stuff and we laugh and sometimes he flirts. Well when I was dating someone he texted me on christmas and asked if I was still dating and I said yes and he was like I'm cool with it haha I'm still single but not really looking though. When I was dating someone else he would never contact me and he got in alot of trouble to and he never used to do that when I was single. I told him advice a while back to fight for the one he loves because he liked another girl. Well the other day I was telling him about my bi polar friend and how I wasn't going to give up on trying to help her and he said no don't give up on someone you love like i had told him before. Now when we talk he will smile and laugh at alot of the stuff I say. The other night my little brother learned a karate move from his class and showed me one and poped my wrist. Well I told my ex that and he was like aww I'd carry you to the emergency room. Also two days ago he came back to school from being sick and I was walking by him in the hall way he reached out for my hand and he didn't want to let go but he looked like he wanted to give me a hug but I had to go to class early to talk to my teacher, so I when I ditched him like that he didn't text me so I don't know if made him upset or what. Today I was walking with my other guy friend and he comes out of nowhere and gets in between us and says nothing. Well then I said hi and then we started talking and then he left to go upstaris to his class. Well usually during lunch he will sit in a place were he can watch me. Today after lunch he was starting to act weird and ignore me completely. After school I didn't see him like usual and him and my other friend who is also his ex have last class together. I think she is still with someone else though. But he always talks to her as a friend and yea. Me and him are both musicians and I just got this new electric guitar and he said he would help me tweak the amp to make it sound right if I wanted the help and I said sure. Well I was going to ask him after school if he wanted to come over to my house tomorrow night to do that but I never saw him or my friend. So yea I'm really confused on if he wants me back or what he flirts a little bit with me so yea. I really need help as to whether or not he likes me as a friend or likes me a little bit more? He has acted friendlier towards me. If I can get advice thanks alot your opion would mean alot to me.
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reader, Abella +, writes (7 January 2011):
 he is missing you, and in his own way he is trying to demonstrate that he likes you. And there are even times when he gets a little jealous, like the time he intervened to walk between you and the other guy you were walking with. He is unsure exactly how to win you back, but is doing as much as he can to get noticed by you. But sometimes the effort all becomes a little too overwhelming for him. And as yet he is not confident about coming out and telling you he still likes you and misses you. The reason he can't yet just tell you that he misses you and perhaps would like to be closer to you is because he fears the rejection and humiliation he would fear, if you say,'no.' His ideal situation would be if you asked him back first.
Conversely, because he is still trying work out what is right for him, he may change his mind in the future, to allow him to pursue a different girl. When his
confidence grows he'll be able to demonstrate to and tell a girl what he wants, more effectively than he does now.
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