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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:right so there is this boy who is a year older than me at school. Me, him and some friends in his year walk home together.Right so here is the thing. For a while now when we meet he and he gives me a really long tight hug (and only me :P), and when we walk he holds my hand. Sometimes he puts his arms around me or comes up behind me and wraps his hands round my front. He calls me names like 'Babe' etc. he compliments me alot (calling me cute/hot etc) and he says he 'owns' me. All our friends say we should go out and calls us boyfriend and girlfriend.But a couple of weeks ago he was hugging this other girl and walking with her and stuff. But he is with us again now. But the other day he was acting really distant from me and he hugged a completely different girl who is known to be flirty. he gave her a long hug then looked at me then carried on walking. I was acting like i didn't care but i was actually quite hurt. So is he using me? or is he a flirt? or is he trying to make me jealous?What should i do? i dont want to be used but i dont want to seem mean either!thanks x
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reader, petina1 +, writes (7 January 2011):
 He is testing out his masculinity by the sounds of it. He is flirting with everyone because he can. At this age everyone loves everyone. He may want you as his girlfriend and may be trying to make you jealous by doing this with others. He could be playing games but that's what young guys do. What do you want from him and are you able to get this. You say you are friends, next time you walk home you could say, are you trying to make me jealous because you treat all girls the same? He may give you a nice answer.
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