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writes:Hi everybody I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we have been dating almost 2 years and we are truly in love and we feel that we ae ready for sex we are both virgins but we have tried several times and it hurts me extremely bad he's very large and I'm tiny any advice would be appreciated thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice everyone it is well appreciated.
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (7 January 2011):
 As difficult as it is, you need to relax. This situation won't improve while you're still nervous. Next time you're getting intimate with your bf don't tell yourself it has to end in sex. This will only put more pressure on you which in turn will make the problem worse. Just go with the moment and you might find things work out a lot better.
That said, if you find that things don't get better even when you relax then you should see a doctor, and please don't feel you can't because they see womnen about this kind of problem all the time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCan we use multiple lubricants together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): hey me and my girlfriend lost it when we were 14 years old and now we are 16 but all i have to tell you is the first couple times you have to take the pain because it will hurt no matter what you can be with someone who is extremly tiny and it will hurt so not being mean but you have to suck it up and take the pain first couple times after that you will start to like it and it will not hurt anymore
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): Rest assured, it does get easier. Try lots of lubricant, like vaseline, ky jelly, baby oil etc. Let him start with inserting just the tip of his penis and slowly getting a little deeper. The most important is for you to relax. If you are tense your muscles will be tense and that can be painful.
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