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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok my girlfriend and i went on christmas break for school and as we go to the same school we texted each other and seen each other over the break some and we were both happy and stuff till christmas day. on that day we were talking as usual and she told me that she had been texting two other guys since about 12 p.m. that morning and it was about 7 then. this mad me kinda mad so i asked her to just stop texting them all day and (later i found out that she had also been texting them really late in the night. like 2 and 3 in the morning)all night. not to stop completely and she wouldnt so one of the guys being my best friend said he would stop when i asked him to. (then i helped him and his gf get back together in the same night.) she got really mad and wouldnt talk to me for hours and when she did i asked her to quit texting them so much and she said she wouldnt stop texting them for me or anyone else, and this really hurt me and she kept saying this everytime i asked her so it just hurt worse and worse. my question is should i break up with her over this cuz it made me really mad and it hurt my feelings too. it made her mad that i texted about 3 or 4 other girl buddies( just friends absolutely nothing more. i love my gf more than anything in the world.) and i stopped texting them for her cuz it made her mad. i've been thinking this over for awhile and i dont know what to do. i dont want to break up with her, but i dont know. sorry its so long. any help would be greatly appreciated. thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): I sense some big big trust issues here and also a bit of immaturity with all due respect. While that is normal my man, you two need to establish clear boundaries and communicate better. Also, your friends need to respect your relationship and give you guys privacy and you yourself shouldnt include them with any discussion whatsoever regarding her or any issues you deal with therein. Good luck bud.
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