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*uziel56
writes:I like this guy and we got introduced through a mutual friend at college, he asked for my number off said friend and began texting me. He was so sweet and made such an effort to text almost everyday. He said to me he doesnt talk to anyone else the way he talk to me, so i went on his facebook and he was right he was very blunt on facebook with no kisses and uses slang language but with me he talked properly and was loving. We then met up in college and spoke for abit and on my way home he text me saying "I really like you xxxx' However, the texts abruptly stopped and i didnt know why, i didnt text to ask because i didnt wanna seem clingy, a few weeks later he sent me a message saying sorry i havent spoken to you, i've had a few family problems, i know this was the truth because the mutual friend found out for me. We had a little laugh and i thought everything would go back to the way it was, but it didnt he completely stopped talking or texting me. I never see him round college because we do different courses so its not like he's ignoring me because he does say hi to me in a very cheery way if he sees me, but i still cant understand why he stopped texting me at all. Any help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): We never keep a girl we like on a text trail unless we are using her as last resort. What's that chick flick phrase? Hunny, he just ain't that into you! Texting isn't effort..its the lack thereof and please don't ever call me because you'll blow it with this other girl I'm with at the moment..who I really really like and don't make me hurt your feelings because you can't take a hint.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (7 January 2011):
 He sounds very darkly to me. You will only get the answers to your questions if you ask. You could simply text him and say that you enjoyed his texts and miss them now, is everything okay. There could be a hundred reasons as to why things changed. He could have an old girlfriend back on the scene,or he maybe can't afford the credit on his phone, anything really. But to put your mind at rest, just ask.
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