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*wiftone
writes:I have been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks. We are both 27. He didnt seem to be as serious about "us" as i hoped. yes i know 3 weeks isnt long but the other night he basically stood me up! I was furious and sent him a text and said that i wouldnt be seeing him again. He wanted to know why and i said that " I think we want different things, its a shame but its the way it is". Meaning that i would like more serious dating and not be so casual as he seemed to prefer. Anyway here is the question, he replied to me but i want some confirmation as to what he meant exactly. He said: "Well, dont know. We'll see. I'll come back to you anyways coz I like you".Can someone please clear this up? I know i should have just asked him but by that stage i wasnt in the mood for more discussions. Thanks so much in advance!!
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reader, swiftone +, writes (7 January 2011):
swiftone is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes he stood me up, we made plans to catch up and he didnt contact me. I was dressed, make up on and heard nothing from him... His excuse was it slipped his mind because of a big day at work... How can that slip your mind?!
Very arrogant of him i know. After his treatment of me he shouldnt even think he can come back if HE chooses!
Thanks for your advice :)
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reader, swiftone +, writes (7 January 2011):
swiftone is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much for your reply :)
Well he said we'll catch up tomorrow night and the night came and he didnt contact me. I text him at 10pm and asked what happened and he said it slipped his mind because of a big day at work!! I felt so upset by this.
He is so cocky and confident and yes it is partly my fault for giving him so much power.
It annoys me so much to think that he feels he still has a good chance with me. I mean who says "We'll see, I'll get back to you". Like it's all up to him! How rude!!
Thanks for your help, it has confirmed my original thoughts.
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reader, swiftone +, writes (7 January 2011):
swiftone is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes he said we'll catch up tomorrow night and the next night came and he didnt contact me at all. When i asked him about it he said it slipped his mind because of a big day at work.
He seems very cocky and confident in his text and perhaps it is partly my fault for giving him so much power. I didnt like the tone of his text at all. He really does think he can have me at any time if he wants. Like it's up to him whether he wants me or not but after standing me up he shouldnt even have that option.
Thanks so much for your reply :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): Firstly - are you sure he stood you up? I mean did he realise why you were so angry at him? Secondly, he sounds a touch arrogant to me - he's going to come back to YOU because HE likes you. Ok - but you are pretty put off right? He sounds like a guy that likes to call the shots including when and when not to turn up on a date. I'd give him a wide berth.
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