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writes:Me and my had a fight over my concern of her having an emotion affair. We really had good talk and things come to normal for a couple of weeks. But on the christmas eve night she went to church. I called her at 12:00pm and she said they just finished the program and is leaving. She came home at 1:00am. I really didn't think about it first. She told me the guy called her while she was in church and can't answer him and continue to tell me some contadicting things. I start to wonder if the program ends at 12:00pm. I asked her if she is telling me the truth. Then I threaten her I will check. Then I ask her how it took her one hour to come home for the ten minute road. She tell me she met the guy after church. I asked her how and she said she just met him in her way home. That was impossible coincindence as he can't be on her way that time. She should have called him but it was not there in her phone. She denied it. Then she start to blame me not to get ride of it. When she come home it is herself who told me he called her, she didn't answer and will tell him the next day that she was in church. Why she say so? Even I didn't aske her where she have been after 12:00pm hoping she might have been talking with friends. I asked her why she lie to me she reply that she afraid it may make me unconfortable. Then why she tell me about the call?I learned from others that the program was over at 11:00pm.Was I wrong? Should I be expected to get rid of it in the sudden? Should I escape the incident given her 'wierd' act? Was she not the one responsible to rebuilt my trust? I'm really confused if I was acting wrong. Please give me your advice what to do.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (7 January 2011):
 The time line from 11.00 till 1.00pm, is two hours. She admitted seeing this guy, whom she's had an affair with. It seems obvious to me that they have unfinished business. You are within your rights to question what has been going on.
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