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writes: So I'm fairly new to this site, but from what I can tell there is a lot of good advice being offered so I thought I'd ask a question for myself. So basically I have a huge crush on this guy. We have a class and used to talk quite a bit (before I realized I liked him). But once I started having feelings I got really awkward and just didn't know what to say or how to act anymore. And to make matters worse I drunkenly talked to him and have no clue what I really said.We haven't talked in about a month and I started to get over him, but lately we've been making eye contact and smiling/exchanging looks when something happens. And I just don't know what to do? How should I start talking to him? Any advice would be greatly appreciated !
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): It would help to know the specifics but I think something could happen, you just have to give it time. Maybe just casually flirt, but also flirt with other guys around as to show him that he isnt all that special and will start to question you liking him. Which could draw him in (all men like challenges right ;-) ).
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reader, loveitlongtime +, writes (7 January 2011):
Ok, he thinks your cute, probably does not like you as much as you would hope, but it CAN happen! I think you just should flirt a little bit, if you are truthful about him smiling at you and stuff. Just say something as simple as a hey, and if you want TEXT him, why not? Life is to short to not get what you want, and if it does not work out, on to the next one!
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