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writes:Can i trust a woman who has had a 3 year affair with her best friends husband?My previous post explained that my GF was off to Mexico with friends for Xmas. My concerns were that on the night before her departure she called me by another guy's name as she orgasmed and the name she used was a guy that was going to Mexico. I confronted her about this on her return after reading all the responses from dear cupid. She confessed to having a 3 year affair with this guy. He is the husband of her best friend of 15 years. She shares her life with her best friend and husband to the degree that i thought on occasions that it was unhealthy and not right at times. She is like a twin with her best friend as they are so close and are such a big part of each others lives. She now tells me it is over with him and she really loves me. She says she didn't have sex with him in Mexico and only went because she didn't want to let her best friend down. She says she went because of guilt.The help i need is this:-Could i ever trust someone that has an affair with her best friends husband???.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe told me that she went to mexico to end it with him. my thoughts were that she could have ended it with him at home and spent xmas with her 10yr old daughter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): No
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reader, doublejack  +, writes (7 January 2011):
In a word - no. My experience tells me that cheaters cannot be trusted. In this case there are additional red flags, those being that the guy was married, and married to her best friend no less. Avoid!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): How amazing! maybe if you don't get too close to her she won't dupe you like she does her bff. You are his surrogate and the long distance is amazingly convenient too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni too was amazed that her friend has not found out. i think the reason for this is that they are so close and her friend trusts her with her life. when her husband calls round to mow the lawn she see's this as normal and helping a friend out. They always go out as a 3 and when they get drunk my GF stays over as normal in the spare room. They get drunk every friday saturday and sunday and my GF best friend usually falls into an unwakeable sleep. I assume that my GF and her mates husband get his wife so drunk so as they can spend time together. I live 60 miles away and work long hours so i can only get over a few times per week so they normally get Friday and Sunday to get drunk without me there.
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