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writes:Hey Aunts and Uncles.I was wondering how to tell an aquaintance of mine that I like him? We have known each other for a few years and I have liked him for a majority of that time. We dont talk much, but we are comfortable around each other. At least that is what I have noticed...I want him to know my feelings for him, without the possible embarrassment or rejection.Thanks!! Reply to this Question
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reader, 0000BraveHeart0000  +, writes (7 January 2011):
Firstly, you have to figure out if he likes you or not. Sometimes when we like a person, we never stop to think...'hey does he like me in that way'? If he does not return the same feelings, you may suffer rejection because he may have it in his head that you are 'just friends' and the whole 'i love you' scene might chase him away. Secondly, you have to figure out if you really love him or if it is just a crush. Try by, figuring out what attracts you to the person; looks, personality....look? because you do not want to love him for the wrong reasons.ulimately , you may just cease to like him in a month or so if it is a crush. Do not be in a hurry to blurt it out.
Like you said, you guys are only acquaintances and you hardly talk. If after a couple of months you find that you still have these feelings then I suggest that you try to get to know the person a little more and develop a relationship....a strong, stable, meaningful relationship and to find out their backgrounds, feelings etc before blurting that word out.
You cannot say it now as you have not been inlove with this person or had a relationship with them. It is best to save that for that special someone who I am sure you will know when the time comes. Remember....
acquaintances--friends--bestfriends-boyfriend/girlfriend--lovers---(the i love u statement may go here). Think wisely
Good Luck!!
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