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I lost my virginity to a married man and now his wife is coming back from travelling to work in the same company!

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Question - (7 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2011)
A female Ghana age 36-40, *plash writes:

he is married with kids but the wife is traveled.am not too sure of my feelings for him,i lost my virginity to this man.my problem is i work for the man and his wife will return soon and will also work in the same company

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011):

You knew your boss is married with kids so why did you start an affair with him. You do know that he is only using you for sex bec he will not leave his wife for the hired help.

Why not look for work elsewhere. Leave this married man and his wife to sort out their marriage.

Nothing will come from your affair. All that will happen is that you will be labelled a homewrecker and your family and friends will find out what you have been up to with the boss. You are not being fair to his wife. She went on her travels trusting her hb and also trusting you but you both betrayed her.

Your lovers wife has to take her rightful place in this company. It is her company and her husbands so you just need to find something else.

You wasted your virginity on a married man. He just took what was offered. I think you made a big mistake sleeping with this married man with kids.

Please stop messing around with married men in future. Do not even think to continue your affair with this man when his wife comes back. His wife will not be so stupid to let you destroy her home.

Affairs with married men always end in disaster and your affair will as well.

LoveGirl

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (7 January 2011):

petina1 agony auntYou have a problem in what you will do now. It doesnt look like he is going to end his marriage for you. He will probably pick up with his wife where he left off. It looks like you have been an opportunity for him to fill a gap while his wife was away. Don't be expecting anything from him now. If you want to take anything further there will be three of you working something out. You , his wife, and him.

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