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36-40,
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writes:ok so i have been attached to this girl for a while and we have been talking regularly since a month. though i know that she acts bitchy sometimes but she has portrayed her image as a very caring and concerned person about our relationship in a while. she is more active than me and is a saviour of our relationship(LDR, so...). she said that she enjoys talking to me and i am her emotional support. though we see each other just more than friends, but we show closure and say we love each other and kiss on phone. she would text me all the time and we are kind of addicted to it. we would always go on and on despite that we never have much to talk but we dont bother about it.now, she met this guy 2 days ago and they exchanged numbers and went for a coffee and a movie. last night when we were talking on phone, she got a call from him and she ttold me to hang up the phone and she will give me a call in 5 minutes. well, we talked for another 10 minutes and she said that she wanted our conversation to be qualitative and not quantitative and that we dont have much to talk and that we can talk later and she is feeling sleepy. i realised that she wanted to talk to that guy for the whole night and she prefered him over me. i said that its ok with me and i understand and we hung up.maybe she is excited about this new thing happening to her lately. but this has hurt me a lot from inside. she has a boyfriend too but she said she is not happy with him. so the conclusion is that even i am acting cold to her since this morning and i am not sure whether i should be bothered about it. maybe this is not happening and is all in my mind and she truly cares about us. but i suspect this happened and she once again acted bitchy. maybe i am oversensitive and screw things for me. but i dont want to be taken for granted and really care about us. please advice what should i do....thanks for the time :)
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (22 January 2011):
 hi
if she has a boyfriend already but is texting you all day and speaking and kissing on the phone she is not being fair to him or you. and now a new guy as got her attention to and she seems to be choosing him over you, why are you surprised? it sounds like she just enjoys getting attention from as many guys as possible. which is fine, but i think this is not the sort of person that it is worth giving a lot of serious feelings too.
you would do better to meet an unattached girl closer to home, someone who will want to give you as much attention as you want to give her, and that you can go out with and do things together and have things in common so that you have got plenty to talk about. let this girl have her boyfriend and the new guy, i think you should take your self out of it and do more with your life away from her
xx
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