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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: there is this guy i talk alot to him and we talk about any thing even sex. i think im in love with him and i have started to be addicted about talking to him, we live far far away from each other we are even from a different cultures, i thought he talks online like that only with me that he really loves me as he says and that im special for him !!! but i find out that he is got aloooot of internet friends which im sure that he talk to them like that !!dear reader i know that he is in a relationship and that we cant be in one cause of that but i love him and mostly will never see him in person!! BUT I LOVE HIM !!! what should i do should i keep talking to him and have fun or should i stop !! hey says that he love me back and he is clear with me that we cant have relationship i know that but still im hurt i love him i love talking to him but cant keep on like that !!! what should i do ??? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (8 January 2011):
hi
you are using the word 'love' (?) weigh up the pro's and cons.. just from your post here is what i have understood...
bad points:
live far far away from each other
from diferent cultures
you have doubts about what he might be also saying to his many internet friends
he is in a relationship (and he tells you he loves you?!)
you would mostly never see him in person
he tells you he can't have a relationship with you
this wanting him but not having him is hurting you!
good points: erm....
....i'll let you fill in the blanks for this coz you're the one that loves him, but you've not said WHAT you love about him.
if you enjoy talking to him (and does his girlfriend know or does he keep this a secret from her?) then carry on whatever makes you happy, but i mean, ARE you happy with it? i can't really see that you are gonna get much out of this except for someone to chat to
xx
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