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Is it ok to date this guy when he use to date a girl I have known since I was a baby?

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Question - (7 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2011)
A female Canada age 30-35, *ait88 writes:

I have been dating this guy for a few months.I havent really told everyone or put it on fb. Im not doing that until I move to college where he lives in august. He use to date this girl I know. Thats how I met him...Me and this girl arent really close but we have know each other since I was born ..and me and her brother and pretty close.Is It ok for me too be dating him even know she did?

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A female reader, cait88 Canada +, writes (7 January 2011):

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noo im the one keeping it on the dl he doesnt care at all hes like inlove with me ...its just her..im scared shes going to come after me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011):

Is this young man keeping it under wraps as well for his friends back home and for his new friends at college? My dear, that is where your real concern lies. Count yourself as dating him when you move to where he is and don't count on it now because things change very quickly at his age and in college. This girl you know will be a moot point once you get out of highschool and live in another town. She will be the girl he once dated before he dated you and a few others and even others while in college.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (7 January 2011):

petina1 agony auntIs that the reason why you have kept it under wraps for fear of her finding out. As long as they parted amicable and he's still not seeing her, then you arent doing anything wrong. Why don't you let her brother know and see how the land lies, see if he will let his sister know, then once it's out in the open it won't matter who knows after that.

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