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36-40,
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writes:A few months ago I started seeing this guy that I really liked. The funny thing is I have no idea why I like him, except that he's just really nice and pleasant to be around. In the beginning things were great, but without going into details things went down hill. So, I started dating someone else because I didn't want to waste my time and energy on someone that wasn't into me. And this guy is really into me and wants to spend time with me. And I've always believed that my life would be easier if I found someone who was more into me than I was into him. And I found that someone. But he....bores me. There's no other word for it. He's perfectly nice, but when with him, I find my mind wandering. And I keep going back to the first guy though my head tells me he's a waste of time. I really don't know why I'm so into this guy. I think it might be because we're still talking and he still shows some interest in me.I don't understand why I can't be interested in the guy that actually wants me and why I'm so into the guy that doesn't.Should I focus on the second guy and let the first one go and follow my head? Or my heart and hope that things might work out with the first guy?:( Reply to this Question
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reader, HappytoListen16  +, writes (7 January 2011):
Heya, well I was in a bad relationship before then found what I thought was A really nice guy but it turneed out that I was not that interested, now I am dating the Love of my life..
Just leave both and then start a new slate. there's no point keeping the one you think you're happy with you have to KNOW that you're going to be happy with them. if you want tostay in a loving commited relationship
Lots of hugs and support
Tjh x
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