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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have liked my best friend for a long time. I think he likes me too, but its like neither of us are willing to take the plunge to further our relationship into what it might be because we are afraid that it might completely ruin our friendship. Graduation is in like five months and i have this horrible feeling that if our relationship doesn't progress that we will grow apart and not be as close of friends as we are now. We are going to colleges about twenty miles apart, but we are both going to live at home and we're neighbors. Even with being that close i'm afraid i might lose my best friend and possibly the best thing that could happen to me. What am i supposed to do just continue to be friends and grow apart or see if we can make it at the next step?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): in all honesty this is different for everybody. I tried stepping it up with my best friend a few months ago...she didn't talk to me for months afterwards she said it was awkward...we are still friends, but we aren't near as close as we used to. Come to find out she's in love with my brother and he won't give her the light of day...try to make sure you are a hundred percent sure that you have a chance or this will blow up majorly in your face.
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