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*rettyGirlRock
writes:My x and i never seemed to have any problems but as soon as i had sex with him, he dumped me for some lame excuse saying "I dont want attachments in the marines" you see he is a sr. and i am a sophomore. He was crying over the phone when he broke up with me, and told me how hard it was for him to do this. But the day before i accused him of cheating on me, which he said he wasnt but right after we broke up he was dating the girl i accused him of cheating on me with. When i talked to him all he said was i like you but i dont want to lead you on then break up with you right before i leave, because i dont want attachments. A few days later we got into a huge fight and he started telling people that we had sex, which is kind of a big deal cuz i was a virgin and like the "goody too shoes" of my class. But the thing is he has a girlfriend, yet he stares at me all the time. No matter what i always catch him staring, when ever he sees me. i am over him, and i have told him i hated him before. Well now all he does is look at me. Even when he is with his gf, i saw them walking in the hall together to day and he was pretending to lissen to her but he was starring at me. What could this mean?Hes starting to bring back all the hurt and pain that i felt when we broke up every time i look into his eyes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): He's looking for vibes from you to see if you're up for something on the side with him. If he wanted you he'd be with you instead of her but he'll take what extra he can get. He'll still talk about you and make you look like trash so he looks better for ditching you for that other girl he was cheating on you with. Don't give him the time of day!
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reader, spnwinchester  +, writes (7 January 2011):
K, guys stare at girls all the time, whether they hate them, like them, love them, find them ugly, find them attractive ect. So him simply glancing at you is clearly because you have a lot of history together.
He has moved on, he probably WAS listening to her in the hallway and he probably thinks that YOU were the one staring at him all the time. You're over analyzing this staring thing.
And he is right to want to break up before has joins the marines and not wanting any attachments.
Try moving on.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (7 January 2011):
 He still wants you. He still likes you etc. But he crossed a line with telling people. And there is a really good chance he did cheat on you to move on so quickly. Just ignore him hunny.
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