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Do I give up on the best guy I've ever met or do I hope that things will get better?

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Question - (7 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear cupid,

I am becoming hopless and miserable.. I've been with my exboyfriend for almost 3 years fell in love during my last year of highschool. He was a prince charming I didnt believe men exisited like him Ive still never met a guy like him even without all the sweet gestures and sayings.. well he is very very busy he owns his own buisness and it ties up most of his time. we usually hangout once a week but we use to talk all day everyday.. we broke up in april but have gotten back together until shortly.. it was never like it first was but never this bad. we talk maybe 10 texts a day and a 2 min phone call, he never replies when I text him throughout the day, ands ee eachother maybe a few hours every other weekend he puts his family job and now sport in front of me... he claims he doesnt have time except when it has something to do with any family member even a 2nd cousin 300 miles away or sport game hell leave the whole weekend and well talk even less then.. Were 20 were young but I want to get married not now but within 2 or 3 years Im afraid I'm holding on hope on someone who doesnt want to be with me.. today he laughed when I keep asking him why doesnt he want to hangout but rather play soccer..

what do i do, give up on my once best friend and the best guy ive met or let him go and find a guy who will apericate me.. Im so scared and truly dying inside and he can live his life as if nothings wrong..

thankyou so much

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011):

He's an ex boyfriend, not your boyfriend and he has a lot going on in his life and building for his future without you b/c he doesnt see you in it. what do you have going on in your life and how are you building for your future to be happy and be on your own? the right guy will come along when you are living your life and not waiting around to get married.

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