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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been dating two years and now she wants a break up and doesnt want to be with me all of a sudden.i do not know what to do. i have been through so much. i do not know what i did. i think it might be because i am too jealous she says but i do not know how to change that if i have reasons to be when she lost my trust.what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): Best thing to do bud is break it off like the others suggest. komali's right on point.
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (7 January 2011):
 I'm very sorry, but, If she doesn't want to be with you, then there's nothing you can do about it. The best way to find out why this has happened is to talk to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): If she is really mean it let it be. It is good you are not married. I don't exactlly know the events that threat your trust. It will give us the chance to know you well. I can't say now wheather you should have desplayed jelousy or not as I don't know your reason.
This relation seems end up but you have to evaluate your handling of events to improve for the next. I can't judge her or you. Simply put, let it go and get a good lesson out of it.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): If someone does not want to be with you, then its a clear sign that they are not right for you! Let her go and move on. Take some time to reflect on how you acted within the relationship and how you can perhaps change (for the better) in your next one but do not try to second guess HER actions. You cannot ever know what motivates people to do the things they do, sometimes they themselves do not know either as they could simply be following their emotions. Also, she broke your trust. Do you really want this person?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (7 January 2011):
 You have to move on from this. Whatever reasons she has for wanting to do this, you have to accept them. She could be irritated by your jealousy and you should be too because you are not able to trust her and a relationship simply cannot work without trust. You can still be good friends and maybe one day you two will get back together, who knows? Just let this relationship go.
I hope that helps.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (7 January 2011):
 You move on. If she has done something to lose your trust and then she gets upset with you not trusting her and becoming jealous then its her fault. Generally if someone just randomly want to break up after such a long time then they are over the relationship. Back off and move on. 1 of 2 things will happen. Either she will realize what she has lost and try to get back with you, or she will move on with another guy. If she does the latter then there really isnt anything you could have done to change her mind. Give her what she wants right now. Itll give both ofyou time to think.
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