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writes:my boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago and im carrying his child and i still want him back so bad we were seeing each other for 6 years before the break up he was kinda talking to me giving me the signals that yes he try again but he said he was sorry he was just trying yo be my friend for the baby's sake. he also said he was really confused and doesn't know what he wants. so i told him he has till the 19th of december to make his mind up cos i leaving to go to america to my bro and i wont come back if thier noting to come back to. but now im kinda scared that he won't choose us that he will let us go cos it be easyier on him if he does. should i hang in there till the 19th or should i tell him i made an mistake.
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reader, shanib  +, writes (14 November 2010):
when i was pregnant with my daughter i was treated the same way, he should be giving you support, i know how hard it is when you are alone, ask yourself this if he s like this now will he be capable of being any different when there is a child involved, from experience of my own it just gives them more of a reason to mess u about. Plan your future for you and your baby and if he wants it bad enough he will come back to you.
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 Hey is he doesn't want you or the baby there are plenty who will in America!!! Safe journey by the way. He should be there for you and the baby anyway, he doesn't know what he wants? He should have thought of that before you two got pregnant. I would hang in there, if you don't and he never answers then you will be left wondering. If you stick around because you think it will be easier on him if you leave, then you are selling yourself short. Dont' stick around just for him, think about your new baby and what kind of life you want for him or her.
Plenty of opportunities in America to explore and wonderful men here as well.
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