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writes:Hey guys,I just wanted some advice from you guys because I just had a quarrel with my boyfriend. He has been appearing very tired whenever we meet up recently because of his hectic final year project.Yesterday, when he came to my house at 12am midnight he said he wanted to accompany me but he ended up playing games on my computer for a while then went to sleep on my bed until 3am and I have to wake him up to ask him to go home.I was mad so I shook him up and told him to go home as I want to go to bed already. He apologized for falling asleep but I sort of chased him out of the house he wanted to kiss me but I avoided it as I feel really upset about him neglecting me.He called me after he got home and apologized for it again. Guys do you think that I am in the wrong to chase him out? I waited for him to come and meet me after he has met his friends until 12am! And when he came he just ignore me and play my games and went to sleep without much interaction with me...Do you guys think I am too much to chase him out yesterday night? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (15 November 2010):
 He already called you to apologize... calling him now wouldn't be needy. Maybe you could just mention that you are sorry if he took offense... might smooth things over for both of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe did not contact me for the entire day yesterday. I waited for him online until 2am but he didn't appear. I feel upset over it I feel that when a guy start to neglect a girl something bad will happen soon.
I can't stop thinking... I miss him but I don't want to initiate a conver with him as I think he will find me too needy....
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reader, Aly9723  +, writes (14 November 2010):
I don't think you were wrong, if a guy does that to me they'd be dodging stuff being thrown at him. Just because I'm a bitch when I'm tired and believe that if a guy comes over to your house it's to see you not a stupid computer screen. So, no you weren't wrong to chase him out.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (14 November 2010):
Are you wrong to chase him out? Not really... maybe a tad excessive... but at least he'll learn from it.
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reader, mrkeating +, writes (14 November 2010):
I'm from Singapore too and I think the weather is quite nice for sleeping today (sunday).
What were u doing when he was playing games and what ideas of 'company' did u have in mind (i.e. watching tv, etc)
Maybe when he was out with his friends, they talked about games and he felt the urge to play too. Does this happen regularly?
Instead of getting angry, try explaining it to him and see if it happens again in future. Perhaps try to reach a compromise on how long he should be playing games on your computer.
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