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*ainy_cloud
writes: I am 21 and I met this guy two years ago in the class. We talked a little and so I found his myspace and we started communicating through there. I told him that I liked him and he basically rejected me. He told me he didn't have time to be in a relationship because he had two jobs and school and couldn't have any distractions. We agreed to still talk but eventually we stopped. We stopped talking for a whole year but still I thought about him the whole time and recently I started seeing him around school again and I saw him with another girl. He saw me looking at him and he didn't even say hello. One day I was in the library checking out a book and he looked at me and I didn't smile. I just looked away and as I walked out he followed me and asked me how I was. While we talked, he kept texting and then said he had to go study so I walked him back in the library and he went with that same girl. I got jealous. He didn't mention anything about him dating anyone else or even mentioned who she was, They spend each morning together. I know this is obviously not going anywhere but I can't seem to get him out of my head. I'm 21 and have never had a boyfriend. Not even a first kiss. I have never been attracted to anyone growing up until I met this guy 2 years ago. I think about him all the time and whenever I know he's around school, I feel like I have to know for sure if they are involved so I'll basically stalk him. I know I need to stop viewing him as the best thing ever but I don't want to. I really like him. My friends try to get me to meet new people but I don't find them interesting at all and if I think someone is ok, it's because they look like the guy I am crushing on. What if I'm never attracted to anyone else? =/
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): Hey!
Dont chase this guy. My gut says he's playing a game with you and that is not cool at all especially for a sweet girl who has very good intentions. He knows you want him so hes being a complete tool and rejecting for whatever immature reason that not even my bench press ability can explain. Its pretty upsetting honest if u think about it...but you shouldnt think about it...cause you are young and believe me you will be naturally attracted to other guys. Its just a question how you pursue that attraction, you can either say no or say yes. This guy is bad news and I feel you have wasted some time on him when you shouldnt have. Go with your friends and meet more people! It can only benefit you as you can always filter people in and out of your life as you see fit. Good luck.
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reader, cheannryl  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 You're just wasting your time dear,let go of the past and move forward.Life's so short you know. When i was your age i used to think that way,but hey you're still young.Each one has a partner so you better enjoy life.And that first kiss?Save it,it'll be perfect for the right guy.
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