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writes:Girls,Would you rather a man who would fight for you or would you rather a skinny twig or a man with muscles (not overboard but enough you can feel them when he hugs you)?
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reader, JustKalie1010  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 In my opinion, personality is most important. But its also kind of different for everyone. If you are a skinny twig with an excellent personality, you might me more desirable than someone with muscles, but no personality or emotion. It kinda just depends, want to find the middle.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 Well, every woman's different. But, I look at personality first-whats the point of having a "hot" body if it can't be sweet, intelligent, and loving? That said, I personally don't like a lot of muscle. What attracts me first is the man's face, soulful eyes... *sigh* I like a solid body, meaning not extremely underweight or overweight.. The guys I see my girlfriends date are about average in body with some being the lanky, thin skateboarder types to the buff to the chubby. When I was younger, I thought I wanted a man with rock-hard abs....but now, I don't care and actually would just prefer a man whose arms can give amazing hugs! :) Like ChiGirl said, most of us women really aren't so hung up on muscles etc. At the end of the day, we just want a guy who can make us feel beautiful, loved, and with who we can share amazing chemistry.
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reader, Aly9723 +, writes (14 November 2010):
I, personally, like guys with a little bit of muscle so I can feel safe when I need the security. But I also like the feeling that he knows I can take care of myself in a fight. The only time I would ever want my boyfriend to help me in a fight is if it was an unfair fight. (Ei: Knives, 2 on 1, ect ect)
So I guess men with a little bit of muscle but isnt a meat head and doesn't think to highly of himself
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reader, r_a_w_r1645 +, writes (14 November 2010):
 honestly, all of those appeal to me. personality is also key in a relationship too, not just looks, etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): just becuase a guy has muscles, it doesnt mean he cant fight for youu. you can be a skinny twig and be able to fight like a guy with huge muscles. i as a girl, like the look of muscles, but i wouldnt turn a guy down who doesnt show muscles. if a girl doesnt except you for who you are then its not worth changing who you aree. good luckk.! hoped this helpped(:
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reader, Eskim0  +, writes (14 November 2010):
^ I agree with the above poster, personality definitely overrules looks. When I look for a guy, I think about his qualities. I need a guy to be creative, funny, intelligent and caring.
In saying that, looks matter to a certain degree...if you're not sexually attracted to them then there is no point. I look my boys tall and skinny with some muscle. As long as they're healthy, I don't have too much of a problem :)
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reader, PurityChild +, writes (14 November 2010):
 Personally I like a guy that is not very muscular but "in shape" I dont know if you really get what I mean, but my boyfriend does crosscountry and wrestling. He is not to nig he is perfect...he is toned...I prefer a "in shape" kind guy, not too skinny or too muscular..in the middle!
Hope this helped =)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 One thing first: personality over-rules looks.
Even a skinny twig can fight for you, and a man with muscles can be self-centered and let you sit and rot. So, personality goes over looks every day.
But, aside from personality, looks matter. And I would prefer a man who is healthy and in shape. No need for bulging muscles, although being able to lift more than a girl is a definite must have, as well as fat not being that attractive. A normal, medium guy who knows how to treat women well is the perfect match for most of us. We don't really ask for much more.
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