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writes:First I have to inform you all on the story, before my question makes some sense.Okay...Teens/young adults my age usually, already have sex or have sudden urges to do the said act. But...I find myself not feeling those urges, and frankly I don't really care 'losing my viginality' Im still a virgin. Im just not thinking of anything physical act wise. My friends told me Im strange b.c Im still a virgin....Saying I might be a late bloomer or just a nun like person....By what they talking about, I feel like a freak of nature for not caring... enough.My question is....Is it normal I don't think of losing my virginality at my age?
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (14 November 2010):
I'm 20 still a virgin and couldnt care less until i find someone who i love then its nothing to worry about its completely normal
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): Hey you!
You are very intelligent and great. Those friends arent your friends first off. F*** them and I do say that very disrespectfully towards them. They show you no respect for your decision and instead make fun of you. If they were your true friends, theyd support you dont you think? Goddamn that pisses me off esp with the lengths I had to deal with in my own virginity issue at age 25!!! Thankfully I did what I did as it was something fairly different than what anyone would experience let alone their first time so they can kiss my half saudi ass lol.
Youll feel pressure, youll feel weird and off the charts however stand your moral ground and forget what those around you are doing as they will only bring you down and if you pay attention to their ways, youll end up like me, a man sho had to take drastic action to get over his fears.
IMO sex early on means shit doll as people are very immature and dont understand the aspects of it when it comes to a relationship or even casual. All they know is booze, dick, ass, and tits. Im not kidding. so by all means you can infer from that comment you are a mature lady and very very smart. Stick to who you are cause theres men like me who find you very attractive and interesting cause of a simple aspect of ur mentality. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): NORMAL! Everyone is different. You know when the time is right. It's going to take what it takes!
Relax, and go with the flow of life!
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (14 November 2010):
 There is no set age that you have to lose your virginity by. You should be confident in the knowledge that you are waiting and not ready yet. When you're ready you'll know and until then you shouldn't feel like a freak of nature! I waited until I was 18 and I wish I would have waited longer than that for the right guy (the one i have now) but I didn't because I felt pressured to get it over with and lose it.
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. You're not a freak of nature. I commend you on waiting until you are ready, it's a rare person that waits to lose their virginity in this day and age. So good for you!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): I really don't think there is anything abnormal about that whatsoever. For the longest time I had ZERO interest in sex. A lot of people found that totally strange and didn't even believe me that I had no interest. However, much to my surprise, I just so happened to meet the love of my life & at the age of 22 I suddenly had interest.
So, just keep doing what makes you happy. Take your time & don't worry about what other people might think! All that matters is that you're OKAY with what you're doing. Don't feel pressured by anyone & one day, when you meet the right person, you might just want to take that next step. Until then, don't sweat it! :)
PS- good for you for not being like everyone else!
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reader, lalala +, writes (14 November 2010):
You are not a freak. It is totally normal to be a virgin at your age. Enjoy being a virgin and do not rush into anything. Once its gone you cannot have it back again. Wait for the right person and you will be glad that you did! ;)
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reader, Blod +, writes (14 November 2010):
 Yep, totally normally. There are many people who've lost their virginity at your age, but there are also a lot of people who haven't. Some people are bothered whether they have or haven't, others aren't.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 It is normal. There are more people than you realize who view things precisely the way you do. You are not a freak and it may have been unwise for some of them to have lost it already.
I hope that helps.
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