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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and I have been having sex for some time now. The sex isn't the problem its the oral sex that has me worried. She gives me BJs plenty of times and that isn't the problem either. The problem is I hate giver her oral sex and I'm not sure if it's me or her. I don't do it a lot but every now and then she asks for it and I give it to her because she does it for me so I should give it back to her. When I do it though the smell is bad and is really difficult for me to stay down there. I don't know if I'm the problem or if she's not "fresh" down there. She's on the pill could that cause odor? What's it suppose to smell/taste like? Most guys say the enjoy it and it's the best thing which makes me think it may not be me with the problem, but she is the only girl I've been with so I have nothing to compare it to. I'm afraid to say anything to her because it could lead to problems and I'm trying to avoid that as much as possible.
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reader, sex_expert +, writes (15 November 2010):
how about before you do it suggest to her that you should shower together....give each other a complete washing..you was her she washes you and then try it maybe she isn't washing good enough or she might have something
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): A healthy and clean woman should have no odor. I can only speak for myself, however it is like a salt water/sweet smell. Almost without any odor at all.... there never has been. She may have something going on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): Make taking a shower part of your play. Tell her YOU (not her) want to be fresh and you want her to join. Soap her up, throw her on the bed and go down on her!
Let her to start to mentally associate a team shower as the prelude to some good head!
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 ALL women have a natural odour. Some are stonger than others, some men love the odour of women, unfortunately you just arnt one of them!
Do you give her oral after a long day?
If you want to give her oral without the odour, the best chance of doing it is after she has had a shower and is a little fresher.
If its something she really wants you to do then tell her. Be delicate about it, because there is a good chance she alreadt knows and it concious of it.
Just remember, that the odour is most liekly not her fault, it isnt a sign of dirtiness, its from the natural bacteria in our vagina which keep it healthy and pH balanced.
Have a shower with her, wash eachother, then after you have rinsed off the bubbles, do it there. Or after you get out. If you are really enthusiastic about doing it to her in the shower, she should get the hint without having to tell her.
Good luck :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): Hey fella!
Yeah if shes not smelling good politely tell her and just explain you want to have a healthy sex life. She doesnt need to take it as a horrible thing, just that you like her fresh and want to be able to enjoy what youre doing and more importantly say it will help better to pleasure her. Hopefully, if shes mature enough, she'll understand.
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