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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: I have an affair online with a married man of 6 years. We plan to meet in 2011 for the first time. Our relationship has grown so deep, we fight and we mend. His wife knew about it and his children but despite of it he continues his relationship with me. I love him so much and I just don't know how to stop the relationship. He won't leave his wife and family for me this we agreed and understood and compromised.Do you think a married man would visit his other woman of 6 years thousands of miles apart? He is from USA and I am from the Philippines. Is he just into sexual encounter despite distance or something deeper feelings is going on?
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reader, milk and cookies +, writes (15 November 2010):
No darling please move on. this has been heart ache for you. let it go.........
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): Married men who have affairs very rarely leave their wives for their "other woman." As long as they're getting something out of their marriage, they will stay.
It is very unlikely that this man will leave his wife and come visit you.
Sorry to say, but it's statistically true.
My advice to you is to break this off with this man and find someone local and available.
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female
reader, tdntuck +, writes (15 November 2010):
It is possible he plans to visit you. It is deeper than just a sexual encounter but do not lose sight of the agreement you’re both in that he will not be leaving his wife and family.
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