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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I just can't get over this fear and paranoia that girls are going to make fun of me or dump me because my penis is less than average sized.For what information is worth, I've got a 4 inch, yes that's when it IS erect, penis with less than satisfactory girth (4 inches around, 1 and 1/2 inches across).I asked my closest girl friends, (not girlfriends, just female friends) because I was so scared and worried, and they reassured me that was fine just the way I was and that size doesn't matter.I thought that was that and I'd get over it but I don't know why I still feel like this after all this time. Sometimes I think that my friends were just lying to me about it, I don't know why.Does that make me a bad friend for thinking that? I really don't mean to, it's just...I've tried to convince myself that I'll meet a wonderful girl who will be understanding and won't care in the slightest bit, but somehow in my fear I am always reminded that maybe I won't be so lucky.Sometimes I'd even read posts online about how a girl meets a wonderful guy but is disappointed by his small equipment, then my own fear cycle starts again.I'm still a virgin and well, I've never even gone out on a date to be honest, so everything I hear is really impressionable to me. ._.; (I'm turning 18 next month, btw)What do I do now? How come I keep feeling like this even though people tell me not to?What's wrong with me? T_T
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (15 November 2010):
 Honestly, size isn't everything and men with extremely large penis' tend to hurt a woman and aren't enjoyable during sex.
You are perfectly fine. Girth is great. Women don't care about the size, we honestly care if the guy knows how to use it or is at least willing to try new things.
Don't feel insecure. Own your body and be proud of it.
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reader, tdntuck +, writes (15 November 2010):
 Size does not matter to women who love and care for the men they're with i.e. you will not lose a woman who loves you due to your size.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): Nothing is wrong with you, Your perfectly normal.
I'm 18, Male from the UK.
I have a 6 Inch Penis and I sometiems feel like I'm "small" because the Porn industry has these "monster" abnormal penises which are HUGE and the females in these videos praise the size. That's the cause of most penis-paranoia.
What you must realise that Porn is not real life, Girls don't praise the size of a Penis, the praise the man. They don't care for the size they care for the emotion, the feelings, the personality!
Do not feel insecure about your body, everyone is different. Your friends are truthfull when they tell you the size does not matter.
Theres no magic pill to make you get over it, and you won't get over it so easily. I'm being truthfull here. Your just going to have to realise It doesent matter, that could take hours, to days, to weeks, to months to finally get over it! Try to get into dating, find a nice young lady for yourself and if you two hit it off you may make love and when you do you won't feel insecure after it. The girl will love you for you regardless of your size.
Hope you get over this insecurity! :)
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