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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionS i have a feeling like I know you...Don't ask why!
Well he is a grown man and I'm 100% he won't leave his wife for anyone...He's 2 scared to do that anyways...It's true that they had problems before I came along...So I don't consider myself a home-wrecker!
I am scared to live for today...It might affect my tomorrow...But I do love him...But now I'm sure he doesn't love me like I do...and I know he hides so many things from me that he used to tell me before and suddenly stopped telling me about...
I'll see what I will do....thanks for ur advise S 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): Ok... first of all.. of course it won't be your fault if he leaves his wife.. because they obviously had problems before you came along... he would never cheat on her if they hadn't.. no excuse but it is the truth. So you are no home-wrecker. And I am not saying that your relationship will last... because you are very young and he are much closer to a senior... but... on the other hand, you are very young - so why not live for today? And follow your heart. Your relationship will last as long as it last. And he is a grown man - if he wants to leave his wife for you - then great. He is not happy with her. Good Luck! /S
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): If u really do not want to hurt anyone, esp his wife, then I suggest u leave this married man alone. U are too young and imature, the home wrecker label is a very destructive label pinned onto your forehead and it can destroy a woman.
Put yourself in his wifes shoes. How would u feel if a 18 year old was making the moves on your hb???
Please review this affair and take stock of what you are doing and the lives u are destroying.
LoveGirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell...that honestly suck...When you give your heart to someone...
I sometimes think about what you just said "tdntuck"...I swear that my intentions are far from hurting anyone...
It makes me sad...I actually don't wanna believe what is true and logic....I always say to myself that he loves me more than his wife...but...I don't know...I hope i will know soon...
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reader, tdntuck  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 Oh honey, no, please don't set your heart on a married man. Statistics are very low the mistress wins.
Food for thought: If he can claim to love you while still married to his wife who he once professed his love to and married in front of his family and friends, he most likely will cheat on you as well IF he even leaves his wife and you both end up together. Married men who stray and cheat (instead of divorcing) are searching for that profound newness. You (presently) are new. You are exciting and fun and thrilling. His wife is boring and nagging. If you become the wife or life partner, you will at some point also become boring and nagging to him. I would say that chances are very slim that he wouldn't want something new again and cheat on you as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to say...nothing has been done sexually or like that...
I'm 2 scared to do that with him yet...
But you're deff/ right about this...Though they are going to get a divorce soon...That is what he said...
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reader, swordandredrose +, writes (17 November 2010):
If he is married, then why do you want to destroy a household? Think about his wife; you are stealing her husband from her. Do you think this is a pleasant thing to happen to you if you were married yourself?? Just think about it for a second.
Also, if this man is cheating on his wife then he is definitely going to cheat on YOU one day too. A man who cheats can never be trusted. So think twice before you do something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have to say with shame that he is married....
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reader, swordandredrose +, writes (15 November 2010):
Is this man married??
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reader, tdntuck +, writes (15 November 2010):
Truly follow your heart and the feelings deep down in your core. There is no right or wrong as far as love is concerned.
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