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30-35,
*it-Kat
writes:Im 16 and recently got a boyfriend. he is really sweet and takes good care of me and i feel completely relaxed about him. me and him got a bit drunk, and we ended up pulling in a forest. we got a bit carried away and i ended up unbuttoning his shirt and trousers and gave him a hand job. he put his hand up my skirt. i felt guilty afterwards. it was my first sexual experience. we have been together 2 weeks. i felt like a slut afterwards. he wants sex, and i might do aswell, but not just yet and he says he will wait until im ready. but how will i know when im ready? and how long were you in a relationship for before you had sex?
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reader, Blod +, writes (14 November 2010):
 Don't worry about feeling guilty because there is no right time. Some have sex on the first day, others wait years. You're ready when it feels right. You'll just know. You may be nervous but you won't have many doubts. If you're not sure, then you probably aren't ready. I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): when will you be ready for love? Not soon, that's for sure, based on your words. Love should come before sex, and as yet you are not even ready for love. A furtive feel, a rushed little sordid quick hand job is not what it is all about. What contraception against sexually transmitted disease or pregnancy did you consider? None. Yes your boyfriend will by now have told his friends how far he got with you. And they will be encouraging him to go further next time. Yes you will get a name as a slut if you continue. And as soon as you break up with your boy friend his friends will cluster around you like bees to a honey pot because they already know you are easy and available. Wise up. You do not need to be available so easily and so soon. Develop a relationship, find out a lot more about the character of your bf. Sex is the icing, not the opening bid in a relationship. What you did was just sex without love, which is debasing how good love with sex can be. Male Dogs can have sex when they are 7 months old, but for dogs that is just mechanical primitive sex. Your first primitive effort was curiosity sex.
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