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writes:I really wanna know the answer to this question especially from females - Do you females really like wearing sexy high heeled shoes or do you do it only for attention. I have heard of shoe fetish but I dont know how far it is true. Does it also have a turn on factor for you girls? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): High heels are prettyyyyyyy....
-Tante Vic
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 I wear them for the confidence boost and for their formality in the evening. As far as the high heel fetish goes, I have heard of a bunch of men being very turned on by high heels. In fact, I had one man request that I wear a pair during sex.
I'd like to add there's nothing worse than a woman who doesn't know how to walk in heels. They clomp around like a clydesdale. If you don't know how to walk in them, practice at home or don't wear them!
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reader, Serpico +, writes (15 November 2010):
See what happy24birthday said. What turns them on is knowing they are turning their man / men on.
Do you wear a suit because it is comfortable? Do you lift weights because the results turn you on? These are the things you do for others....
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (15 November 2010):
 I like wearing heels. It's not a turn on for me. What turns me on is knowing I turn my man on.
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (15 November 2010):
 I only wear high heels on special occasions. I have high arches in my feet and they hurt my feet. I prefer flats or shoes with a small heel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): Hi
High heels when i dress up, i love them and they make it so much easier for my boyfriend to peep up my skirt..i'm a tall one anyway.
Spunky monkey
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 November 2010):
 I guess it makes you feel sexier, and that can help be a turn on. They just make your legs look longer, more toned and they give you a sense of confidence and power.
It is for attention (isn't everything you put on your body?), because you do want to get noticed for looking good. It is also for fashion reasons - and fashion says HEELS. And sure, lots of women just really love wearing heels. I definitely do on special occasions. I always feel like such a knockout!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): i am a girl who loves my heels, its no differant then any other shoe, just happens to be my pick because they are nice looking. if i hadnt worn them so much, they wouldnt be comfortable like they are to me now. i can wear really tall ones, the shorter, the more boring they are. i feel sexy in them, so even if they did hurt my ankles, they would be doing my confience good any ways. but... i dont understand why girls wear those huge heavy ear rings tho!! ouch!
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reader, Elydiese +, writes (14 November 2010):
They usually make women feel more confident and sexy as it gives you a better posture makes your legs and bum look better there isnt one specific answer as to why we wear them
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reader, Maria-consuela  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 High heels have a different purpose for different women -
For me personally, being shorter - I like the fact that my legs and body are lengthened - I feel more graceful, stronger, and more powerful. I have a pair of shoes for every mood, day or night - and love the fact that I can take an otherwise boring ensemble and bring it to another level.
It also varies from heel to heel. Really high heels without an ankle strap for support are impractical and take time to get used to. Wedges offer more comfort and are great in the summer or in a boot - but tend to be less flattering on the leg.
Personally, I work really hard at the gym - I adhere to a very specific diet. So, for me when I wear heels not only does it emphasize and flatter attributes I feel I've worked hard for, it polishes an outfit and makes it complete.
A really well made pair of high heels can be comfortable - cheaper heels tend to wreak havoc on your knees, ankles and toes - and mid-range heels can be comfortable in moderation - and in appropriate situations.
Do I see heels as a fetish, or a sexual turn-on for me personally? Not neccesarily. The heels themselves dont do it for me, but I will admit in certain intimate situations my sexiest heels did play a part - but only as a small element in an already steamy situation.
I would say, if you are unsure about wearing high heels dont start off with a pair that are sky-high. If you are interested in picking up a pair for fun, pick low sling-backs with a kitten heel - an ankle strap or a pair of wedged boots.
If you dont think heels are your thing, its not a requirement - you should wear whatever makes you feel comfortable, pretty and fabulous. Not what someone else thinks will work for you.
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reader, ivanichiaynus +, writes (14 November 2010):
 The main reason for wearing heels, for a woman, is the effect they have on the leg-line and bum.
Compare for yourself, if you can find a willing volunteer to show you her profile in underwear, firstly without heels and then with - the difference will be dramatic!
Ivan.
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (14 November 2010):
 I think it's different for every girl. Some wear heels because they want to be taller, others only do it to look good.
Personally I'm not a huge fan of heels myself, good thing too, it actually hurts my ankles if I wear heels. So far I've only worn heels out once and that was for my prom and even then they were only low heels.
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