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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and I am confused as to what is going on. I havent been in a serious relationship in a long time and I dont know what to do. My boyfriend and I dont see each other that often he lives about an hour away and we both work alot and our schedules never match up. When we do get together its always our only day off and we are usually both exhausted. We haventt had sex in a while and I feel like he uses our time together to run errands and sleep. I have talked to him about this multiple times and I dont seem to be getting anywhere. And last week he totally blew me off and he wouldnt tell me what was wrong and when he finally did it was something important. I feel that after almost a year together he should tell me instead of hiding it from me. I really do care about him and I know he cares about me. So I just wanted some advice...Should I move on now or is there somethinmg else I should try and do to fix this?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 You need to be able to be strong enough to deal with a long distance relationship, even though he only lives an hour away you both have busy schedules and it means not getting to see each other all that much, i totally understand why you are feeling that you just want to give up, but am sure there is a better way about it, a few years ago me and my then boyfriend were in the same situation, i was working an hour away six days a week and only got to spend one day with him a week and he used to spend that day sleeping because he was in night shift the night before so i know how frustrated you are feeling believe me. I guess you both need to be patient and work on the relationship for a while and discuss what you both want in the future, the next time you see him sit down with him and tell him how you feel, of course its hard for both of you to keep going the way you are going, try and set out a schedule were you will both be free on a weekly basis and go out somewere nice, wether it be to the movies, or for dinner just get dressed and go out, things like this is really important to do with each other when you dont see each other that much. Try and make time for each other in the bedroom as well, as you know this is an important part of any relationship, just sit down and talk to him. Goodluck.
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