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writes:hello therei'm a 19 yo male,virgin i've met a girl 1 year ago, a collegue, i like her a lot but she likes my best friend every time i go out with her she's okay, is having fun ... doesnt seem like she's disturbed by my presence but when i go out with my best friend and she's coming along too i'm invisible, she treats me without respect.i know for sure that my friend doesnt want to have anything to do with her,just casual sex, they had sex a couple of times but i know she likes to have casual sex, even if she likes my friend she wanted to have sex with me too but i wasnt ready.she thinks that if you're a virgin at 19 years is a disgraceany tips how i can change the way she thinks?excuse my bad english thanks,
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): This chick might be fun to play with but she is not relationship material. She's given you a couple of reasons already.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): first, its nerver a disgrase for being a virgin, you are saving your virginity for someone wh respects the choice you made to stay a virgin. if this girl is not respecting your choice, then she isnt worth losing your virginity too. good luck.! hope this helped.! remember, someone who is worth losing your virginity to, is the one who will accept your choices.!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 Be patient with her ignorance. She needs to learn to value people herself, it is not something you can teach her. Other than you can tell her that it is not disgraceful, and that she should respect people that are different from her.
But in either case, this is something she needs to learn on her own, and with time she will.
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