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writes:This guy will ask me out days in advance but he won't settle on a time until the day of, which is really really annoying because I can't do anything that day other than wait until he settles on a specific time.BTW, when he asks me out, I don't ask him what time either, so that might be my fault. But still. It's always, "Lets go out on _______". and it ends with that until he calls that day.If it means anything, I'm in my mid 20's and he's in his late 20's. Does this mean anything? Or is this just his personality? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): Just his personality. Yeah take initiative and set a time and day. He's prob thinking the same thing...to wait for you to plan a time...so both of u dont say anything lol. Just suggest a time and day for him and see how that works. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): it just means that this guy is rude. He needs to tell you at least one day advance where you are going, so you know what to wear, what time he will pick you up, so your whole day is not on hold. Dont just allow him to say he will meet you at some public place. No. He needs to show you the respect you deserve. Pin him down to a date, time, where etc. Dont allow him to treat you as an after thought when he finally gets around to fitting you into his life. No respect? Easy, then it's no date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): I don't think that it is anybody's fault, it sounds frustrating hanging around but I think that you could easily fix that by saying what time? or when he says a day you could say shall we say 7.00 p.m.
Alternatively, you could pluck up the courage to ring him just to set a time. It doesn't look as though he doesn't want to see you just that communication needs to be a bit clearer. You could give it a go and see what happens.
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