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writes:I've been with my husband for going on 9 years, we've only been married for over 2. We have a little baby boy together. Recently we just haven't been able to get along. Ever. We constantly fight and argue and the sex, well .. it's pretty bad. It's often, but its not good. The past 5 years I've had a job and gotten a lot of attention from the guys there, I never acted on it. Always just enjoyed the compliments. Well over a month ago, I acted on it. I met one of my co-workers at a hotel and, well, the rest is history. Here recently its been an every weekend thing. He left his girlfriend and has been insinuating that it's my turn, but I'm not sure what to do. He gives me butterflies and its fresh and new and so amazing, and the sex is great, but I am married. I have a 20 month old. I need help, I don't know what to do!!
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reader, shanib  +, writes (14 November 2010):
I too have a very stale relationship and have too strayed so i can relate, my sister tells me that if i have gone elsewhere then im not truely happy which is true but i cant end my current relationship as i have children. I think before you end a relationship it must be because you are not happy not because this guy wants you too, if he truely likes you he will wait till your ready you dont want to jump out of the frying pan into the fire, good luck
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reader, fisch777 +, writes (14 November 2010):
Well you have two, well three, options. 1.) You find out why you marriage went bad and how you can fix it. You could sit down with your husband and tell him how your feeling. Figure out if it's fixable, if you both want the same things, and figure out together how your going to fix your marriage. maybe take more alone time together, counseling, and maybe find a way to spice up your sex life. It's not going to be easy but it can get better if you both try.2.) You leave your husband and go to the other man. 3.) continue what your doing. This is the easiest option but he doesn't deserve that. If your going to move on then just do it so he can too.
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