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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I'm a little bit nervous about asking this question, but I need some help! See, I'm quite self conscious, and my boyfriend likes to watch me during sex, and it makes me really nervous! I'm not sure what I'm supposed to look like, or if I'm supposed to say something, or...well, anything really! I've tried telling him I don't like it when he watches me; but he just laughed like I was joking. I suppose my question is: should I really lay it down with him and tell him not to, or should I just get on and get over itPlease help! Reply to this Question
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 you have to understand that what he wants to watch is you enjoying yourself. many men love to watch their women masturbate, and also thats why many couples bring video cameras and mirrors into the bedroom. i understand you are nervous and it seems you have some self confidence problems. remember when he asks you that, that you are beautiful and sexual woman, and there is no right or wrong when it comes to sex just do what feels right! moan and scream if you want to. close your eyes and just FEEL everything going on! forget about him, this is about you enjoying the experiance. if it helps maybe get a blindfold. it helps you shut out the rest of the world and just focus on how good it feels. i hope this helps!
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