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female
age
30-35,
*raciiee
writes: Okay so don't really know how to deal with a situation and I don't want to make an irrational move in case it makes things bad. However ; Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship and have been together for five months. I'm happy with her and she's happy with me, and she's plannning on asking me to marry her around new year. But I have a serious issues; she cheated on me about a month ago with a girl she met at a party, it was only a kiss and she was very drunk. But at first she had told me that it looked like they had kissed and they hadnt. She then waited 2 weeks to tell me the whole truth when I visited her. She told me she had feelings for this girl and they had been chatting quite a bit. Obviously I was really upset but we got past it and my girlfriend promised this wouldn't happen again. For the past month this girl has backed off, but recently she's been posting pictures of her and my girlfriend as her profile picture (group photo not just the two) on facebook and has been leaving a quite a few comments. I'm really resisting the urge to say something to this girl, but at the same time I don't know how to talk to my girlfriend about it. What do I do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): You need to talk to your girlfriend about it. You could try asking why she allows the woman to put all these photos on, and why she doesn't put her straight.
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