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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:dear friend I need some advice. things ended with a guy i truly adore last tuesday. I think the problem was down to my ex. my ex shouted at me a while ago telling me he loved me but not in a nice way. my love found out about it and thought i was cheating, which i wasn't. we then sorted things out but a week later he wasn't right so i took the bull by the horns and ended it, he thought it was 4 the best too. it was give clear he has trust issues but i have never or ever will cheat. i told him i wanted to be friends and he said he was really really sad to loose me. i still miss him like crazy. i text him a joke last week and he replied within 3 minutes(he always took ages to reply). he told me the night before we broke up he can't wait to spend his life with me and now this. he was with someone for 8 years and she left for another bloke. have i missed my chance and how do i get him back? thanks Xx
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 Well first off he needs to work on his trust issues before the relationship can be good. He was cheated on in the past therefore he has lost trust in women, its not his fault but he does need to get help for those issues or he will never be able to be in a good relationship again.
Ask him over and sit down and talk to him, tell him you want to be with him, and that you will never cheat on him but that he needs to get help for his issues, tell him you will be there for him while he is doing this and get him to sign up to a councellor to get everything out in the open, the councellor will help him with his issues. Goodluck.
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