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30-35,
*eilovable
writes:Hello I am 20 years old, I have been in LDR wid this guy for bout two years, in de beginning he was sweet n everything seemed to be so magical. Now the problem is we do not have anything to talk bout, months n months pass n we dont talk on phone n that is because he has made it clear to me that he cannot talk to me on phone in his hostel for long hours , i understood it , stopped calling him but when he comes home for vacation, even than he doesn't call me or wen he or I do call , we do not have nething specail to talk bout......we only fight n that make me so depressed that why can't we have those same days when we really used to love each other ?? is it because we r mismatched or what?another thing if sometimes i am in the mood , he never appreciates that nor he becomes happy at any cost....the life has become so boring.Commited couples do talk bout their future plans but he never ever talks bout ne such thing but he becomes insecue whenever i tell him bout my proposals n stuff like that.He is a caring n considerate guy , he has supported me in my bad days, but why can't we laugh n be happy together ? we even fight on our happy n special occasions ......He often complains that i dont understand him n i initiate the fight, i admit i am moody n i am impulsive but that doesn't mean i have to understand each n every time when he isn't feeling as enthusiastic as I !!I really wanna be wid him but i am becoming so hopeless bout our relationship n the chemistry issues. Help!!!
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reader, reilovable +, writes (5 December 2010):
reilovable is verified as being by the original poster of the question He gets mad when ever I propose about this time out thing :(
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 Don't feel alone, That "magic touch" fades in ALL relationships but it sounds like in this one your guy is distracted by something else altogether. Perhaps a "time out " is needed to re-ignight the flames?
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