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anonymous
writes:I have dated a girl for 10months now.Everything was perfect until last sunday she asked us to break up.I did everything and anything you could think of for her.I love her soo much.When i asked her why she wanted the break up,she said its because she has a crush on another guy,and the guy doesnt show any feelings for her which is hurting her bad.She told me she has falling out of love for me,which got me very hurt.I asked her since when did she have the crush and she told me 3months ago..I became very suprised because 3months ago,she was still telling me how much she loved me and all and even that friday before the sunday she broke up with me,she told me she loved me.i broke into tears all of a sudden,i cried whiles on phone with her.She then told me she was sorry but i should understand which i didnt.The next day i called her early in the morning,i couldnt sleep so i decided to walk around,she asked me whether i wasnt going to work,i replied no because i cant considering what was happening to me,when she realised i was just walking around she became very scared and thought i was going to do something crazy.so she tried convincing me to go home and she promised to come and see me on friday so we talk about the whole thing.She did come on friday and we did talk but i was still not letting her go,she was hurt that i was crying and she hugged me and said "if this is wat you want then so be it".I know but i still love this girl.I believe she loves me because the relationship was almost perfect.I dont know what to do??? Im i right to continue with it? or i should have just let go.I know that girl and i really feel she is going to love me again,she is just confused now.Help me pleaaase!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): It's called a "breakup" because it's broke. Don't try and fix it. Let it go and save yourself a boatload of misery. Don't be sad because it's over, be happy for what you had and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): ~MISERY LOVES COMPANY~Take it from first hand experience, the girl you are grieving over is MISERABLE and doesn't even love herself...and therfore she can't even love you...I'm serious, walk away...She will end up pulling you into her pit of misery and Sweetie life is too preciously short for that...DO YOU! I promise you, you will reflect back and thank me...especially when you meet people who are so kind, sweet, understanding, compassionate and love themselves. You seem like a really sweet guy. Let her go. She's toxic.LIVE, LOVE and LAUGH~God Bless.
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