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writes:HeyOkay so I live in the UK and I go to uni there. There's this guy that I like as a friend, and maybe as a crush too. And I definitely kmow that he's not shy at all. When we first met he was really friendly with me; we had lunch together and had long walks together. However, although we're friends, he acts a little weird around me. Whenver I say 'hi' to him, he just stares at me weird (doesn't smile or anything), sometimes even looking deep into my eyes. Then around my friends, he smiles and says 'hi, how're you?' and he's normal around them. He doesn't talk to them for very long though. He still sits near me in lectures and whatnot. He still talks to me too, though sometimes we run out of things to say. When we talk, he acts friendly but sometimes he teases me and such. Sometimes, I even catch him looking at me from far in the lecture theatres. I don't really get him anymore. Why is he acting this way with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey
Thanks for the answers :)
However, it's not to do with his staring problem really (the way the title was phrased kind of made it seem like that)
It's more to do with his weird behavior: one minute he's friendly and nice, then the next minute he acts weird. He's normally nice to everyone always, but he doesn't know them very well.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 He may actually dig you, but is afraid to make a move. Or he may not realize he's doing it, more like staring off into space than staring directly at you. It's hard to say. Why don't you ask him what's up with him staring?
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