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writes:Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?Would you allow your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend have an affair as long as he/she was taking care of you/home? Would the person wanting to have the affair be accepting of it in reverse?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): Years ago when I was younger, I accidentally fell in love with a friend while married. We had an emotional affair that then turned physical. I thought I could handle it, but feeling developed. Still I felt like I did love husband too. I loved both but for different reasons. In the end, my husband never found out, I ended it with the other because I was having a nervous break down with my confusion, and then my husband died, the other man did not return, and I have remained completely alone. I had two loves, then all at once I was left with nothing. I sometimes think it was bad karma. Because I did what I did, I lost it all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): If anyone wants the option to see more than one person at a time... then they should remain SINGLE and not enter into an exclusive relationship. Period. Then you can have as many people in your life as you wish.
What on earth is the purpose of entering into an exclusive relationship... only to add other people to the mix? It is illogical.
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reader, AgonyAuntiee93  +, writes (4 December 2010):
Yes, its possible.
Would you allow your husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend have an affair as long as he/she was taking care of you/home?
I wouldnt want my boyfriend to because i would feel like he doesnt love me, and that he is just taking care of me so that he could see some other woman.
Would the person wanting to have the affair be accepting of it in reverse?
I dont really know, its up to them. I dont think that they would like the fact that they are having sex and kissing this man, yet he is going home to sleep and spend the rest if the night with some other person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): No i will never interested in a Poly Amorous relationship. I know some people see no problem. But i think it just causes pain.
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