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*halia4287
writes:Hello' I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and dated for 7 months. He now is in Prison and i stuck around because i love him. Well he is due to be released in a couple of weeks, and he says he wants to marry me asap, move in, be a family, etc.,etc. , Well the problem is I don't believe him, or trust him. The reason i don't trust himis because i found pictures on his Mom's facebook of him and his "friend" in matching halloween costumes with them daniing, girls face in his crotch area' just inapropriate!! This so callec friend of his has been non stop talking smack to me, that i am not the only one' so for me to believe my bf wants to marry me and all this stuff is hard for me. he says he will stop talking to his "friends" because of me, but shouldn't it be cuz he loves me and doesn't want to see me upset? We also agreed to delete our facebooks to eliminate the drama from our relationship, well I erased mine' but when i asked him for his password and all that he said he'll just have his friend do it for him. He said he doesn't know what's on there and he doesn't want to fight. i understand that i can not punish him for anything that was on there for the time he has been locked up, but if its before than that's not cool. I think he is hiding something. i feel sad and mad and confused, almost like i wanna throw in the towel but i can't. and i feel stupid cuz here i am supposed to be his girlfriend and he brought another woman around the family who clearly has feelings for him whild we are supposed to b a couple. Help please, i need a solution , i'm very lost and confused
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reader, Luigic +, writes (7 May 2013):
I would be very careful w/ur boyfriend. He dosent want to marry u.. It sounds good.. Dont waste ur time on any man that pays attention to another woman.. Wait for a man that is (all) abt u.. Ur young and should be enjoying love .. When u dont trust him now what will change it later...... Tell him either choose or ur done..
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): you need to step up and lay your foot down and leave because he's gonna be having sex with you and her he's just talking that marriage crap because he hasn't had any in a little while so he's thinking with the wrong head. don't be stupid and fall for it and get hurt more leave now and save yourself more agony if you keep going it will get worse not better.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (5 December 2010):
 Your solution is to dump him, you know!
He doesn't sound very trustworthy. What did he do to get sent to prison in the first place?
Whatever it was, he will have to find a job - not necessarily easy for an ex-offender, even if some potential employers will give a man a break - depending on what his crime was.
No, this does not sound good at all.
As for saying you can't throw in the towel, why can't you? You have to look after YOURSELF.
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