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writes: I'm 18 and i've never had a boyfriend, never had my first kiss or anything. I'm off to Uni next year and am hoping to finally meet someone. Do you think guys will think my total lack of experience is weird?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): Question asker here.
the title is kinda misleading (i opted not to write one myself)
I wasn't asking is it weird i've not had a first kiss. I know it's not. I'm cool with that. I was just wondering what guys thought about girls who hadn't been kissed? does it bother them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): I hadn't been kissed until I was 20
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reader, pancakes rule +, writes (4 December 2010):
It's grand. My friend is 18 and she only had her first kiss about a month ago. I had mine when I was 16, another friend when she was 12, and I know a 19 year old who has never been kissed. It just happens at different times for everyone. I've never had a boyfriend, I regret my first kiss with some randomer at a party and I learned that although you might become more comfortable with kissing and not think of it as a big deal when you get more experience, you should always only kiss people you really like. It's soooo much better ;)
Just relax about it, be yourself and you will meet somebody. And it really will be worth it.
Good luck
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 December 2010):
Nope, we get 20 year olds on here who have never been kissed, and 30+ year old virgins. So what you're asking isn't out of the norm.
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reader, youngandrestless +, writes (4 December 2010):
heck no!!! i commend you on it! its a rare and beautiful thing to see someone who hasnt been around the block 20 times! i was 18 when i had my first boyfriend, and we kissed a little but it ended within 2 months, my first serious relationship didnt happen until i was 19, and im glad i waited because i am marrying this man and dont regret being with him. dont jump into things with the first guy who looks at you either, make sure that he's the right guy for you, not just a guy. good job and i hope you find mister right soon :)
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