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*andygirl1978
writes:Okay me and my boyfriend have been together going on 8 months we get along great and we live together and in 8 months we have only had 3 arguments which is a record in my book but our sex life is not that great. at first it was but then he kept acting like I was always wanting to have sex and then he tells me he's not a sexual person which is not true from his past. I caught him one night on the computer looking at secret friends which makes me sick. since then when I'm asleep he gets on secret friends and I don't understand when he knows I would love to have sex. now we have sex once a week if that and I'm the one that has to make the move and then its always the same way, me on him like he just lays there. this brothers me I want him to make the first move and do me, I believe from his past he's been with lots of women and mutual women at same time and I think its his lifestyle, not that he can't be with one woman, just that he'd rather watch. I know it takes two and you both have to work on it to keep and make it great but I feel I'm the only one working and it turns me off about what I think he likes.
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reader, kika2168  +, writes (5 December 2010):
someone said "if u are satisfied with your sexlife then u can move on to a marital life",the key is communication,if he doesn't change ,its time for you to move on and break up,if he doesn't come back for forgiveness zen he has been playing with you.i was like that,but changed when i met someone who i really loved and she played with me .
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