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writes:I don't usually do this kind of thing, but it troubles me so I just wanted to know what you guys think. I am 21 years old i have my own company (I sell housings for certain phones) Everyday a lot of people add me.But this certain girl added me a month ago. She wanted to buy a housing so we started talking. We had a long conversations for about a week. After that she decided to come to my place so I could change the phone for her. I also had asked her to watch a movie with me which she agreed on. We had a really nice time together. We just sat on the couch and watched the movie and talked a bit. I had also bought the things I knew she liked to eat so we ate that during the movie. She seemed so suprised. After the movie was done i gave her a little present, just a reminder. (teddybear lol :P) She told me I was very sweet so i kept replying with so are you. After I dropped her home we didnt do anything yet. But she wanted to come again so we made an appointment. The 2nd time I saw her i came to pick her up from a station. I saw this guy singing and doing weird behind his car. When she sat next to me she told me that the same guy i saw earlier harrassed her a bit. Without any thought I drove back and said '' what is your problem'' the guy just stepped out of his car yelledd. He came next to my window hit me on my head(didnt feel a thing) I was about to step out but the girl was sooo scared.. during the whole ordeal she kept saying'' Let's leave please im really scared, please'' So I escaped (he litterly chased me down lol, but managed to shake him off) So when we came home I felt a bit bad. She kept saying are you okay? are u hurt?? so i gave her a long hug. We watched a movie again and after that I just kissed her. We kept kissing for like 30 minutes when my little bro suddenly stepped in the room haha. yeah it was a bit embarassing. My mom gave me her neklace with earrings the day before so i had thought that i would give it to her which I did.. i could tell that she liked it a lot. So i drove her back again and when i dropped her we kissed again. We kept talking, everyday the whole day long. She used to wake me up at 10'o clock because of the break she has from work. But he never forgot about me. It came from both sides, when she didnt had to say anything I stepped in and vice versa. (we kept chatting through our phones, through blackberry). When I was dropping her home I said when will you be coming again? which she replied with is that okay? want me to come again? and she kept holding my hands every single time Those small things made me happy..So she came every friday. On my birthday i wanted to do something special so i bought roses spread them out of my room with candles on and a nice vanille scent(she likes vanille) She was so suprised, so we kissed,we kept kissing. We sat on my couch again and she kept holding my hands laying close to me with her head on my chest slighty touching me.(I also did that with her, it felt so great. I was really happy. She had also told me that she likes being with me so much. Until recently about 2 weeks ago (last time I saw her was at my bday) We talked about having a relationship.She told me that she didnt want any obligations and that it was okay the way it was.. but I kept thinking you like me so much whats holding you back? Even though I know that she is not a girl that flirts with others I kept thinking that she might go to someone else because of the fact that she didnt want to commit..I know she has had bad relationships(1 of 3 years and 1 of 1 year) But she told me that I was the sweetest guy alive, the one that makes her laugh and which she has a good time with..she also told me that she likes me a lot. I didnt know what to think.. so I confronted her with it.. I told her that I loved her and she replied with isnt it too soon for that..perhaps it was but for me it felt like love..she told me that she didnt have those feelings yet so I asked her if she would want to go for me. She replied with yes..I also said I dont want to lose you.. I just want you to think about me forget about obligations and stuff..I confronted with this because I had noticed something in her behaviour, she took distance..kept talking less. Didnt wake me up at 10 o clock anymore.. Thats why I a bit hurt and wanted to know more. I still feel the same about her. We didnt talk 1 day long and in the night I coudnt resist and send her a message with did you forget about me already? You havent talked to me at all today, which she replied with so havent you:(. Also when I called her sweet names and things like before she once replied with you make me sad :(. Now, she talks when I talk to her but it feels like its coming from me and I keep thinking should I just ignore her and make her miss me a bit, but what if that backfires ? I just dont know what to do anymore, I dont want to let her go, I know that she likes me but i ..i just dont know what happened. When I ask her , she replies with noo im just myself..but thats not true, her old self used to talk more, her old self used to tell me more. Anyways, i wrote a lot hope you guys can figure her out because im not sure myself anymore..all i know is that she hasnt come for 2 weeks now its weird because it really felt like love..and I still think it does but im not sure why she acts this way..it feels like she doesnt want to come anymore and doesnt want to talk through the phone or chat..
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): Those words are reassuring thanks!
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