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*rincessmamma
writes:Why does it seem like she never wants to be home anymore? She always comes home so late the last couple nights shes come home when im already in bed. And tonight my gramma is babysitting so we can have a night alone but she says she doesnt know if shes going to be home for sure or not. Usually that means she wont be home. When we are together she tells me how much she loves me and all that stuff but it seems like she never wants to be home anymore. What am i doing wrong? Even our sex life hasnt been the same the last couple of weeks. She made the mistake of leaving her phone out and shes been acting different lately so i checked it n shes not saying anything that would appear that shes cheating so idk what im doing can someone help?
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reader, advisorX  +, writes (5 December 2010):
 Obviously she is no longer interested to you. Anyway be strong and let her go. You deserve someone who will not hurt your feelings especially in your situation right now. Always think that when you lose someone, there is someone better is about to come. Stay happy coz its not the end the world yet.
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reader, Princessmamma +, writes (4 December 2010):
Princessmamma is verified as being by the original poster of the questionive tried talking to her about it and ive asked her if shes uninterested or if im doing something wrong she always says no and that she would tell me. i talked to her today and she said she was with family which is believable cuz its her cusins bday whos shes really close to and she already told me a week ago about these plans. i told her i just want her to communicate with me more n she said im sorry . i said dont be sorry. and she said that i expect her to text me 24/7 and i said no thats not what it is i said i just want you to communicate with me more and let me know whats going on. she said im with my family and i said thank you. and i asked her when she was gonna be home she said tomorrow. which its whatever sundays my daughter comes home which means absoltely no alone time. i said k ill c ya when i c ya you have a house key and no reply im really pissed lately she is never home and when she gets home im already in bed im sick of playing these games with her and is it so much to ask for a freakin hour of her time. im pregnant and emotional and i try to take things easy but this is really hurting me to the point where im almost ready tojust give up trying to be with her and have any of her time. im about ready to say i just dont care. i love her to death but im really thinking that im starting not to. i dont think she understands why it hurts me so much. ugh this is stupid i just wanna let go.
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reader, advisorX +, writes (4 December 2010):
If we see such a change of behavior to our girlfriends or wives. We believe that there's something wrong. But what?The only one who knows about it is your girlfriend. The best thing to do is to become strong and ask her about it. Talk to her, sometimes women could not confront us and tell us what their problems about us guys. So we should be sensitive about it and ask them about what the problem is.Maybe youve done something wrong that hurt her feelings and you became insensitive about it.communication is so important in every couple. Go talk over about her problems, and solve it together.
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reader, Abella +, writes (4 December 2010):
 Unless this is the time of year when the business where she works does a lot of overtime - but then she'd tell you. No need to be secretive about thatOrShe making a lifesize sculpture of you in her spare time in an art studio? Unlikely.Or, the most likely reason?So sorry but you have a rival. There is someone else who she finds interesting. It's early days with her new relationship. So she's not told you yet. She's keeping her options open, just in case the newrelationship does not work out. Whose name is on the lease?Get that sorted. Pack up anything really special to you, just in case you have to leave in a hurry. Does she or you owe each other any money? Get it sorted now.Watch out for picking fights. To make you feel unwelcome.You deserve more honesty than she is extending to you now
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