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41-50,
*2007ink
writes:I need help. I been having a relationship with my best friend for almost 11 months. We started out as best then later started having feelings for each other. For several months we had a great relationship but then I found out that he still talks to his exgirlfriend and sees her. He tries to block his feelings for me. Several times I have seen him with the ex. Every time I tried to talk to him he gives me the runaround. I really love him and we always have a great time together there’s a connection between us. Sometimes he is super sweet and cold. He tells me doesn’t go w her anymore, but I have seen the text message. The ex loves him too. Also, I help him a lot with projects we work for the same company but different departments. Please advise
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reader, p2007ink +, writes (4 December 2010):
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 Ok well it sounds to me like he still loves his ex girlfriend. You need to talk to him about this, if they are only friends then thats fair enough but you need to talk to him and ask him who he wants? Tell him that it is not fair on you to be left holding on to something if his heart is not in it. Ask him to be open and honest with you about who he wants and take it from there. Goodluck.
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