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writes:Me and my girlfriend had full sex for the 1st time last night. I wore a condom.We both wondered beforehand if we'd feel the condom.My g/f said she couldn't and actually sighed a bit with pleasure so I was really pleased. The only thing afterwards was it was so messy taking off the condom.It looked horrible with all the semen in it and I found it really embarassing. We want to have intercourse regularly now so how soon does it take to get used to wearing a condom?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): No reason to feel embarrassed by the collection of semen! Speaking personally, I only find it a turn on to see the condom full of it. There is nothing the least horrible or unpleasantly messy about it. It is just part of the general mess of sex, which is a good mess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): How do you mean it was messy? All you have to do is grab the tip and top and slide it off. You get used to taking it off. Just make sure to do it before you go limp and it falls off, you really don't want that to happen while you're still in the bed with her it can get even more messy. Tie a knot in it and dispose of it in the bathroom. Then have a pee and wipe yourself off or wash the area.
You do know it's a good idea to have a pee after sex don't you? Especially for women. It prevents build up of bacteria and infection.
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reader, Cherrybaby +, writes (4 December 2010):
Having sex wearing a condom does take some time getting used to but it could save your life and is good practise. The sensations you feel aren't as good and it can be a bit of a passion killer when pausing to 'get it on'. However you will get used to it and it will soon become second nature..good luck, hope this helps.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 Well first off good for you'se that you are using protection thats the main thing. Ok so yeah condoms can look messy and but you shouldnt feel embarresed. You should be comfortable around your girlfriend about these things. After a few times of using them am sure you will get used to them and it wont embarress you anymore.
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